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Anyone else annoyed at DH tonight? (vent)

dbos99dbos99 member
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We just had a huge screaming match and I really can't stand the sight of him right now.  Long story short, he had a list of things to get done by tomorrow which is when his parents come into town and my shower is(Sat).  Now this list has been up on the fridge for 3 weeks and nothing on there is that difficult.  He has been slowly getting some things done, and from the moment I made the list, I asked him if there was anything he didn't agree with, etc.  He said no.  So, fast forward to today when I ask him about one of the things that needs to be done and he goes into this whole thing about how he doesn't think it needs to be done by tomorrow and some other b.s. The thing that pisses me off about this, is why the eff didn't he mention this before.  Instead he waits till the day before, which knowingly pisses me off...urgh!!!

Then the whole got into a huge all out screaming match with me accusing him of never getting anything done, being pathetic, etc.  Of course I said some things I don't necessarily mean, but come on! Now I am just more overwhelmed about getting him to do the things for the baby before he/she gets here.  It is just really frustrating and the whole thing ended with me in tears downstairs and him upstairs probably caring less about the whole thing.

UGH!!!  Sorry, ladies, I just had to vent... 

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  • Kingston54Kingston54 member
    Sorry to hear that.  One thing I can tell you for sure: men don't get "it".  And by "it" I mean - everything!
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  • nolabride0605nolabride0605
    Mine was at work for 12 hours, and at 7:45pm, I texted him and was like where the hell are you (I expected him to be home about 20 minutes before). Then he gets home, goes right for the food and the tv and continues to ignore me and our 3 year old who is trying to get his attention. So, I got mad at him and I am pretty annoyed with him right now, too... I feel you!
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  • dbos99dbos99 member

    image*Kingston*:
    Sorry to hear that.  One thing I can tell you for sure: men don't get "it".  And by "it" I mean - everything!

    Ha!  I love that and it is so true!! 

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  • ArmyWife123ArmyWife123

    ME!!!  ive been trying to get every inch of the house perfect and this weekend that included me going thru our kitchen and getting rid of tons of things and asking him to put up a shelf in the garage so i can put some appliances out there to free up some cabinet space.  so monday i bought the shelf stuff, he has class monday and wed nights so i kinda assumed it would be done tuesday.  yesterday he gets all mad at me that theres still crap all over our table and my only reaction was 'um- you havent put up the shelf.... where else should i put them.'  so today i asked him about it again and he said ok ill do it at lunch.  he didnt come home for lunch.  then he was home about 10 min after work before running off to play poker and hes still not home.....

    maybe tomorrow ill have a shelf?

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  • dbos99dbos99 member
    Glad to know I am not alone!  I am all about the philosophy if you want something done right (and timely!) do it yourself.  However, being pregnant is definitely limiting this and certainly adding to my frustration with DH.
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  • EffieOpertEffieOpert

    At this point in our lives I love my husband but that doesn't mean I like him.  The nursery has been under construction for three months

     

    I'm sorry he is a PITA

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  • lilitaliangirllilitaliangirl member
    OMG! I am so with you. My husband has turned quite lazy during this 3rd tri. He was soooooo good and helpful when I was sick in tri 1. But that is long gone. I just got then entire house (kinda) straightened out. He walks in the bedroom takes his work clothes off and throws them on the floor and goes to watch TV! Seriously? Did you not hear me say I've been busting my butt since I got home from 9 HOURS of work!!!!!!!!! Come on dude....we have DVR - watch it later... Ugh. Oh, and then asks me if we can have sex tonight - Um NO!
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  • IDFarmer'sWifeIDFarmer'sWife

    Yes, I am ready to throat punch him!  He is in charge of making dinner and doing pretty much everything else around here since I am on bed rest.  Well I got chicken out for dinner and I told him what I wanted him to do with it, he started complaining about not knowing how to do it, so I explained.  He continued to complain the entire time while making dinner. 

    Now he is cleaning up after dinner, b*tching because I sat around and didn't do anything, didn't put the dishes in the drying rack away, blah, blah, blah.  Then he continues to mumble sh*t about me and that I didn't do.  

     Ugh!  I am so frustrated with him, he doesn't get that I'm not supposed to do anything and me doing stuff can result in causing problems for me and LO!  I would think that he would want both of us to be healthy but apparently that doesn't matter.  

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