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NE1 not want sex?

PSUBean22PSUBean22 member
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my sex drive is shot because I am so tired ALL the time.  Oral is okay but I cant do it for DH as it makes me want to vomit! 

Is anyone else in the same boat?

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Re: NE1 not want sex?

  • tanstaetttanstaett

    I totally am not in the mood! I feel very sorry for DH. I am not in the mood to do anything. I am tired and constantly feel like crap. Tongue Tied I figure that we had a lot of practice making the baby, he can handle not getting it until I feel a little better!

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  • BlondeBeachBride08BlondeBeachBride08
    Not super interested. :) 
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  • allyandpat2010allyandpat2010
    I go through surges where I'm really horny or don't want it at all.... hopefully this settles down soon!
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  • MrsAmyBMrsAmyB
    Yup.  I'm one of those boring wives now.  M/S does not allow me to get kinky. Wink
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  • taprehodataprehoda
    Um, we haven't had sex since BFP.  Poor hubby!
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  • Jena510Jena510
    I don't want sex at all... And it doesn't help that I have a yeast infection and have to use cream for a few days (sorry if TMI).
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  • emily0829emily0829 member
    imagePSUBean22:

    my sex drive is shot because I am so tired ALL the time.  Oral is okay but I cant do it for DH as it makes me want to vomit! 

    Is anyone else in the same boat?

    Bleh. I just dry heaved.

    I want nothing to do with any sort of sexual activity. If it's anything more than a peck on my lips, he is getting too fresh.

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  • BFab11BFab11 member
    Between nausea and exhaustion and back/head aches, It just never sounds good.  Poor DH.
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  • teamsweetteamsweet member

    I don't have much of a sex drive either - we have sex about half as often now.  I still enjoy it which is why we're doing it at all.  My m/s consists of occasional nausea so other than being tired, I feel okay most of the time.

    I couldn't even imagine getting frisky if I was throwing up all of the time. 

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  • sweetgirl425sweetgirl425 member
    definitely not in the mood!
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  • Pytko7Pytko7
    Yeh im so not intrested.  Im tired and have m/s.  Dh is very flustrated with me not having any energy.  I dont think he gets it.  I feel bad but hopefully it will pass.
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  • alleynyalleyny
    I feel the same... Any kind of excess motion seems too tiring to attempt.  Hopefully in a few weeks this will pass!
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  • madladybridemadladybride member
    Not in the mood. I spotted a little after sex after the BFP and now I'm paranoid... I'm also a bit, err, dry...
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  • StephanieDMStephanieDM member

    *sigh* I wish I had this problem. I'm not allowed to have sex because I have placenta previa. I'm getting ultrasounds every 4 weeks and until they see the placenta has moved up I'm on strict no-sex orders. Sometimes I'm so nauseous that I'm not in the mood but when the nausea lets up it'd be nice to be able to have sex with hubby :(

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  • StevieJoStevieJo

    imagealleyny:
    I feel the same... Any kind of excess motion seems too tiring to attempt.  Hopefully in a few weeks this will pass!

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