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Lost my first baby

jgoetz1jgoetz1 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I just found out today that my baby stopped growing at 8 weeks even though I am 11 weeks along and that the heart stopped..  I feel like a member of my family has died.  So sad...  My D&H is scheduled for Thursday and I know these next few days are going to be so hard..
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  • MaryYVRMaryYVR member

    HUGS.  I just found out that I lost my first baby today as well.  It hurts so much.

    Wishing you all the best.  PM me if you ever want to chat/vent.

    Mary

    mmc @ 14 weeks - November 2009. Missed every day. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 15DPO:461 17DPO (47hrs later):1380
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  • jgoetz1jgoetz1 member
    I'm sorry for your loss too, Mary.  I've been trying to distract myself by watching movies but as soon as I start thinking about it the tears come back.  I just got in a fight with my sister too because she told me our baby just wasn't meant to be.  I do believe it was meant to be or it wouldn't have come to me..  I hope this gets easier with time. 
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  • 62207bride62207bride
    We experienced a loss today also.  Should've been 8w5d at my first appt today, but the U/S tech was only able to see a gestational sac that measured 6w5d.  Diagnosed by my doctor as a blighted ovum.  I'm having a really rough time dealing with it.  Its amazing how attached I got in 4 short weeks.  I'm sorry for the loss both of you ladies have experienced and understand the pain you're feeling.  
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  • ButterflyMommy2009ButterflyMommy2009
    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you may find comfort in the wonderful women here. It has been been very tough to lose a LO, but here, you dont feel so alone. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and god bless
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3

    I'm very sorry for your loss.  I just had my D&C yesterday for my first pregnancy and loss.  I would have been 11 weeks today.  It is a very difficult experience to go through.  It sucks welcoming anyone to this board, but it is a great place to talk about your feelings and get support. T&P to you.

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  • cchiquelincchiquelin

    I am so sorry for your lost.  I have found this board to really help me out.  The beginning is definitely hard; but it slowly gets better. My thoughts and prayers are with you.  I wish none of us had to go through this. 

     

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  • KtB0605KtB0605
    I am so so sorry for your loss...I agree with the pp's...this board has been really helpful to me throughout this tough time. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us updated. 
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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    Sweetie, you did lose a member of your family and I am so very sorry for your loss. I had my D&E a week ago today. Today I should have been 10 weeks and going for my intake appointment to hear the heartbeat for the first time. Instead I met with a grief counselor.  This is not how it is supposed to be.  {{hugs}} to you.
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  • Temp950106187509203Temp950106187509203 member
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    Sweetie, you did lose a member of your family and I am so very sorry for your loss.


    This.  Your baby was just that--your baby.  It is right to take time to grieve for him or her as such.

    Take care of yourself (and the same to the other new girls in this thread).  It sucks that any of us have to be here, but I'm so glad you've found this board.  It has really been helpful to be able to "talk" with people who understand.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. This is the least fun club in the world to be a member of.
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • FlyswmerFlyswmer
    ((((HUGS))))  I'm very sorry for your loss.
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  • Genie0120Genie0120

    I am so sorry for your loss, and all of the other girls that posted about their loss.  While this isnt a place I ever wanted to be, the board has been an area of comfort and  a sounding ground without judgement.  I hope you can find it to be the same for you.

    ((((hugs)))

    Mrs. Georgean 5.13.06 Holy 2nd Surprise BFP - Expecting our 2nd little one on Feb 9th 2013 After 3 years of unexplained infertilty, trying, hoping, and lots of peeing on myself.....Clomid Ovidrel IUI on 7/27/09 Best RE ever = BFP on 8/11/09 9/23 Missed m/c at 10.5 weeks. Very thankful for the time we had together. One lonely follie Clomid Ovidrel jacked up IUI on 12/31/09 (thanks to the nurse who wrote down the wrong protocol ) = 1/14/10 BFN - go figure. 150mg Clomid Ovidrel IUI on 2/12 - beta 2/26 = BFN Again..... Last IUI before a nice break...Cmon Luck of the Irish! Trigger 3/15, IUI 3/17... BFN and taking a little break before Follistim
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