Just found out today (after visits to two different medical offices and an amnio and numerous ultrasounds) that my baby girl is dying.
I find out today it's a girl, but it's bittersweet because her heart is failing and she has swelling over her entire body (didn't even look like a baby per the ultrasound anymore).
I'm heartbroken. The diagnosis is hydrops fetalis (sp) with a heart defect.
I'm sad to say I may be bookmarking a link to this forum and deleting the one for 2nd tri.
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Re: I'm still pregnant... sorta.
I am so sorry. I wish none of us had to be in this forum, but it is an amazing board. Sadly, there are quite a few ladies with late losses that post here.
Big hugs dear. If you need to talk, feel free to PM me. We lost our boys at 23 weeks, so I know how hard it is to have a late loss.
9/13/09-Twin boys born at 23 weeks due to Pprom.
Ethan and Jacob-our beautiful angel babies lived for 11 minutes and 23 hours.
Single embryo FET 12/2009-BFP! Blake born 8/2010 at 39 weeks after 36 hours of labor and an emergency c section < IVF 2- BPF! Due April 27th Our Story
BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10
BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15
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I am so sorry, this board is a great support. The ladies on here are always ready to listen and provide a shoulder to cry on.
I really am so sorry
Labor Buddy to Blowfish11
Hi... I lost my little girl 3 months ago. I know what you are going thru.....
I also noticed that in terms of thebump- we are neighbors.... If you would like to chat sometime... let me know. I have experienced much of what you are going through. I also know about all the decisions you are going to have to make. If you want to learn more... read my bio.
I am sooo sorry hun... I know this is the hardest.
T & P
~Elizabeth
I am so sorry that you are going through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers and we are here if you need to talk.
(((((HUGS)))))
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My heart was breaking when I read this. I am sorry that you are going through this experience.
GEAUX TIGERS!!!
1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09
June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids
2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10
Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful
HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!
Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!
Im so sorry that you are going through this. I delivered my daughter at 18 wks in March this year. It is one of the most difficult things I have ever gone through. Know that we are all here for you when you need to talk, vent, cry, scream, etc...
Please PM me anytime you need to talk. I have been there..
{{hugs}} to you today. Your story makes my heart break.