Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

I'm still pregnant... sorta.

Just found out today (after visits to two different medical offices and an amnio and numerous ultrasounds) that my baby girl is dying.

I find out today it's a girl, but it's bittersweet because her heart is failing and she has swelling over her entire body (didn't even look like a baby per the ultrasound anymore).

I'm heartbroken. The diagnosis is hydrops fetalis (sp) with a heart defect.

I'm sad to say I may be bookmarking a link to this forum and deleting the one for 2nd tri.

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Re: I'm still pregnant... sorta.

  • I am so sorry, and please know we here at any time.
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  • I'm so sorry.  What a horrible thing to go through.
  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this.  It isn't fair.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so sorry.  I wish none of us had to be in this forum, but it is an amazing board.  Sadly, there are quite a few ladies with late losses that post here.

    Big hugs dear.  If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.  We lost our boys at 23 weeks, so I know how hard it is to have a late loss. 

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  • so so sorry {{HUGS}} this is a great place for support though. it's really helped me though.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry, this board is a great support. The ladies on here are always ready to listen and provide a shoulder to cry on.

    I really am so sorry

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  • Hi... I lost my little girl 3 months ago. I know what you are going thru.....

    I also noticed that in terms of thebump- we are neighbors.... If you would like to chat sometime... let me know. I have experienced much of what you are going through. I also know about all the decisions you are going to have to make. If you want to learn more... read my bio.

    I am sooo sorry hun... I know this is the hardest.

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  • I am so sorry that you are going through this.  You are in my thoughts and prayers and we are here if you need to talk.

    (((((HUGS)))))

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  • Oh I am so so sorry. Please make sure you take time to process and come to this board when you need support. Big hugs to you.
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  • So sorry, thoughts and prayers
  • I am so sorry.  I lost my daughter at 23 weeks 3 days just 3 months ago.  Feel free to PM me if you need to talk, vent, anything!
  • So Sorry you are going through this. This is a sucky club to belong to but the ladies here are a good support who understand. I lost my daughter at 22 weeks just over a week ago and had some difficult decisions to make and have found some comfort in this board.
  • I'm so so sorry for you. I'm crying right now. You'll be in my thoughts.
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  • My heart was breaking when I read this.  I am sorry that you are going through this experience.

  • I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.
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  • I'm SO very sorry.  HUGS
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  • I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. This is so not fair! I lost my daugther a little over 2 months ago at 23 weeks. Big hug to you on the days ahead. Please know we are here for you. ((hugs))
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family, and your angel baby.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss....I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this....
  • I am so sorry you have to go through this.  {{hugs}}
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  • That's absolutely devastating. I'm so sorry.
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  • Im so sorry that you are going through this.  I delivered my daughter at 18 wks in March this year.  It is one of the most difficult things I have ever gone through.  Know that we are all here for you when you need to talk, vent, cry, scream, etc... 

    Please PM me anytime you need to talk.  I have been there..

    {{hugs}} to you today.  Your story makes my heart break.

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  • I'm so sorry  :-(  Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. 
  • I am so sorry.
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