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DH is a lurker...

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over my dang shoulder. It bugs the crap out of me that I cannot bump in private. Sheesh! He's all clingy right now, bugs the living crap outta me! GET OFF OF ME FOR REAL!!

Anyone else's DH act this way when you are bumpin'?

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg
    my DH gives the screen the stare down when he walks by - but other than that I don't let him see!
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • travers081906travers081906

    NAH.... not really! Sometimes he gets in on all the fun though!!! He thinks the girls on here are friggin hilarious!!!!

    Just have him read some gross post about AF and cramping, blah, blah, blah.... he will walk away

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    Okay, he literally was laying down next to me (I am in bed) reading what was on the screen and watching TV... :::Go watch your dang football and leave me alone:::

    It didn't feel right with him right by my side. Ugh.

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  • cchiquelincchiquelin
    When I am on my laptop, I just tell my DH that I am working.  He believes me since I work a lot and I told him I am behind at work (and I probably should be working right now).  If he knows that I am bumpin, he would probably be over my shoulder. There is also football on;so he is occupied
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  • rjl07rjl07
    DH knows what I'm doing, but he never tries to look.  I'll share things with him every once in a while though.  I can picture him lurking when I go to bed though just to see what all the hype is.  So if you ever see any random late night posts from me...it might be him!
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  • ladylaurali25ladylaurali25

    DH doesn't bother me while I am on the laptop. But for some reason if I am in the office and am on the computer I minimize the page. I HATE when people look over my shoulder when I am looking at FB or pictures or bumping. I think I get that from when I mom did it (and still does).

    MOM "who is that?"

    Me "Uh mom, you dont know them!! why are you asking me who the Hell they are?!"

    Get out of my space!

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  • far_more_than_rubiesfar_more_than_rubies

    DH has NO CLUE that I bump.  Before my m/c I was on at night sometimes-- but mainly when he is working.  Now that I am addicted to TTCAL, I'm on a lot (waaaaaaaaay too much) at work so he has no clue.

    I don't think he'd understand......

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    imagefar_more_than_rubies:

    DH has NO CLUE that I bump.  Before my m/c I was on at night sometimes-- but mainly when he is working.  Now that I am addicted to TTCAL, I'm on a lot (waaaaaaaaay too much) at work so he has no clue.

    I don't think he'd understand......

    I don't think guys understand and since it DOES monopolize my time, I think he gets jealous in some respects. I say just get over it, this has really helped me cope and meet new people.... Get-Over-IT!! Good thing he hasn't been back in, I might flip a lid. Just a little irritable today I guess!

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  • Cissi64Cissi64
    Mine gets mad if I am on too long.  I'm not "moving on" from the MC.  But it was perfectly okay for him to be on FB for hours at a time and ignore me as I was having MC #4. when all I wanted was for him to hold me.  He was connecting with HS friends that he hadn't seen in 20 + years ( yes, we are old).  My feelings are if they were that important to you, you would have kept in touch all these years!
    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • missnessitamissnessita
    lmao!! my bf was just doing that and i was like can you please stop reading what im writing!
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  • Texas77againTexas77again member
    yeah i catch dh eyeballin the screen.  then he starts reminding me how he has a sn and he will get on here.  oh and he wants all the dh's here to join his new site....TheSack.com   Surprise
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    Sometimes he reads what I'm looking at and tries to pretend to make silly posts!
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