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IL visits!! UGH (underage PG mentioned) longish

HugginAngelHugginAngel
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So We went to visit IL's yesterday and find out that 18yr old BIL with the one year old is going back to court to change his days of visitation because, "Lil furby is getting in the way of him and his new serious relationship."  ANNNND because he found out the baby's mother (who is 8mo pg) "is going out every Fri and Sat night partying and he wants her to be 'stuck' with the baby on the weekend so she can't"  

REALLY!?!?! Frickin REALLY?!?!?!?! Best part is that my MIL is all behind him on this. He was sick this weekend and said he didn't want the baby there if he was sick esp. with her being PG. Well his current GF answers the phone Baby Mamma says, "if you can be whoring around then i'm bringing the kid over" So when we got there the baby was there. (he's the one we're working on trying to adopt)

 Anywho!! So IL's decide they want to go to the Flea Market and FIL says to 16yr ol BIL, "Lil Furby's asleep why don't you stay home and get some practice."  DH and I froze and questioned what that meant. Wellllll 16yr old BIL got his at the time 14yr old GF pg then dumped her!!!! He denies that it's his kid but here's the kicker MIL is pisssssed about it yet every time we were over there when they were dating they were upstairs in his room gettin busy!!  Apparently they were sex'n it up every day!! I wanted to scream and run out of the house!!! 

Then MIL gives the kicker!!  "hey Mikey did you ever think that even Matt would have a baby before you???!!! hahaha"  Well thanks BIOCH....just stick that in my face too.

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Re: IL visits!! UGH (underage PG mentioned) longish

  • maritzburggirlmaritzburggirl
    I have no words....speechless....I cannot believe you left without murdering someone-I would have! and if you ever want to, I'll help hide the bodies! hugs.
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  • lolabean08lolabean08
    Hmmm, when does this show air on TLC?
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  • applebride40applebride40

    You are a better woman that me...I would have screamed at her.  I am sorry you have to deal with crap like that.  I hope the rest of your week gets better!

    BFP 8/26/09, Missed M/C 9 weeks 5 days BFP 2/03/12, M/C 2/13/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    OMG. I am so sorry that you had to go through that.   I cannot imagine what was going through your head and how you restrained yourself from jumping out of the chair and beating the shiit out of one of them.  I really am so sorry....gosh.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel
    All I can say is THANK GOD that we only go down there one day a month. If we lived closer I think I may have killed them all by now.
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  • cchiquelincchiquelin
    I don't even know what to say. I am sooo sorry that you have to deal with all of that. 
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  • bebebluesbebeblues

    I am so sorry you're going through all of that.

    Teenage parenting is def. a sensitive topic. Most are not "parent" material. It's sad that a life is brought into the world that way.

    I have a friend who dealt w/the same thing. She and her dh (who are 24, own a home and are both very stable) had been ttc for about 7 months or so when her 16 yr old sister got ku. Right after her sister delivered, she found out that her 15 yr old brother had a 14 yr old ku.....she had to deal w/both of those babies and their baby showers before she finally got her bfp/healthy baby. I think she keeps her neice and nephew a lot of the time. It's sad.

    My dh' s brother is only 25 and expecting baby #2. When dh and I got ku w/dd, (me 25 and dh 27) his brother (at the time 22 and his wife 21) were also ku. His mom would constantly make the comments in public, "Well I never thought my youngest would be a dad first....." It offended me bc it came off like WE were the ones that had done something wrong.

     

     

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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member
    What a bunch of losers.  What's wrong with them?  And how did your husband turn out so well?
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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel

    imageheathergirl67:
    What a bunch of losers.  What's wrong with them?  And how did your husband turn out so well?

    Because he's the oldest and spent most of his childhood with his Grandparents!!  I think the lord every day for that!!!

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