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A Club I didn't expect to Join

tamhen1979tamhen1979 member
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I didnt expect I'd be here but I am, so hello. I had a d&c on Oct 27. I was almost 13weeks but the baby measured 9 weeks. i had some funky spotting so they did an ultrasound and found my missed miscarriage. I have been in shell shock for two weeks and finally found the courage to get back on the boards. I feel like I am in denial most days, I just dont want to think about what happened.
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  • lauren_c_tlauren_c_t

    I am so sorry for your loss.  I know this isn't the club we thought we would be in, but the women on this board are amazing. 

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  • jennsadye1979jennsadye1979
    I'm so sorry for your loss. This board is a great place, the women here are amazing. Nobody wants to join this club. but it has some really nice members who can help you move through the grief. I found so much comfort and answers to my questions here after my loss, and I hope you are able to do the same. Take care ((hugs))
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  • tradster2007tradster2007 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and that you had to become a member of the club.  Take each day one at a time and let yourself grieve.  {{BIG HUGS}}
    BFP#1 8/14/09; Natural M/C 9/16/09 @ 9 weeks 2 days 
    BFP#2 5/11/10; DS1 Born 1-27-11 
    BFP#3 6/24/12; Natural M/C 7/1/12 @ 5 weeks 
    BFP#4 9/22/12; Natural M/C 10/17/12 @ 7 weeks
    BFP#5 3/3/13; DS2 Born 11-7-13
    BFP#6 9/20/14; Due 5-28-15


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  • SonadoraSonadora member

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    ::hugs::

    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • christina&philchristina&phil
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member
    so sorry for your loss.. the ladies here are wonderful for support.. ((HUGS)))
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • ala_1220ala_1220
    Sorry you had to join our club. 
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    GEAUX TIGERS!!!

    1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

    Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • MSC03MSC03 member

    I'm sorry--this is an awful club to be a part of, but please know that we're here for you.

    Unfortunately, there's no easy way through this but we're here to help however we can.

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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member

    I am sorry for your loss.

    ETA: Your puppy in your siggy is really cute!  My dog has been a real comfort. He doesn't talk back or say stupid things. {{hugs}}

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  • hunterjumper102hunterjumper102 member

    Im so sorry for your loss.  Im new here too and have found the women to be here so comforting and supportive.

    Trying To Conceive since November 2009
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    IUI#1-4 all BFN
    IVF#1 January (4R, 4M, 1F) BFP
    Colt was born on 10/27 at 11:50pm. 6lbs and 19 1/4"
    Surpise! Baby #2 is on it's way.  EDD 9.18.14

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