Trying to Get Pregnant

Officially TTA.

Which is pretty easy when you never have sex with your husband anyway.

I don't think we are going to make it another month, and if we do, I am DEF. NOT going to bring a baby into our mess. I don't want to leave this site quiet yet because talking to you ladies makes my day go by a lot faster. Thanks for all the support, but I won't be getting a BFP anytime soon.

Re: Officially TTA.

  • Sorry. :( Hope everything works out for the best for you!
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  • Oh I am so sorry Kara. Hopefully you can figure things out.
  • I am so very sorry to hear this.  Do you plan on (or have you already) trying counseling?  I wish you the very best and I hope things work out for you.


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  • I am so sorry and I think you are making a wise choice.  I hope you and your husband the best.
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  • I'm so sorry hun. GL to you. I hope everything works out!
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  • imageBlondiePhD:
    Oh I am so sorry Kara. Hopefully you can figure things out.

    Congrats on your BFP!! I just saw your post.

  • I'm sorry and I wish you and your husband the best. Have you tried counseling or considered it?
  • imageL&R70707:
    I am so very sorry to hear this.  Do you plan on (or have you already) trying counseling?  I wish you the very best and I hope things work out for you.

    We have discussed it already. I went through this whole thing last month and things got better and I decided to go ahead and start TTC again. But.there is only so much I can take.

  • I am so sorry to hear that! My thoughts are with you though and i hope you hang around here! Big Smile
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  • I am so sorry to hear this.  I applaud you for making a brave and wise choice, though.  Most people would kick TTC in high gear in an effort to save their marriage, and I think it's commendable that you're mature enough to make a better choice.  I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness in the world.
  • I'm sorry Kara, I hope you two can work it out.
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  • imagedaniellepaoli:
    I am so sorry to hear this.  I applaud you for making a brave and wise choice, though.  Most people would kick TTC in high gear in an effort to save their marriage, and I think it's commendable that you're mature enough to make a better choice.  I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness in the world.

    ditto.

  • Kara I'm really sorry to hear things aren't going well.  I hope everything works out and my thoughts & prayers are with you and your DH.  Please don't leave, I'd miss you!  ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry :(

     
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  • SO sorry to hear that! I hope everything works out for the best, no matter what that may be. T&P
  • imagedaniellepaoli:
    I am so sorry to hear this.  I applaud you for making a brave and wise choice, though.  Most people would kick TTC in high gear in an effort to save their marriage, and I think it's commendable that you're mature enough to make a better choice.  I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness in the world.

    All of this.  Good luck to you.

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  • I'm so sorry things haven't gotten/stayed better for you two. I hope you can figure out what's best for you both. And I'm sorry you have to put TTC on hold, but I'm sure you already know it is the best decision. GL.
  • So sorry for what you are going through.  Hope things get better :)
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  • I'm so sorry.  I hope everything works out for the best.
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  • I see that you've been married since May. Take heart that the first year of marriage is definitely a difficult one and things could look up! I'm heading into my third and best year of marriage - our first year was definitely rocky. Maybe you'll get through this rough patch. Hang in there!!
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this.  I think it's smart to work out any issues with your marriage before you TTC.
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  • I'm so sorry-- I wish you the best in whatever you decide. ((hugs))
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  • I am sorry that you are going through this. It seems like you are making a very wise decision. I'll keep you in my T&P.
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  • So sorry you're going through this, Kara. I hope you can work things out. Counseling could be very helpful.
  • Im sorry, that sucks to say the least. I hope everything works out for you.
  • I'm sorry.  I hope everything works out for you.
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  • I'm so sorry for everything.  Hopefully things will look up soon and you will be back to TTC. 

    Please don't leave.  I enjoy seeing you here and chatting.  Smile

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  • Sorry to hear that Kara. I hope things get better for you soon.
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  • I'm so sorry
  • imagedaniellepaoli:
    I am so sorry to hear this.  I applaud you for making a brave and wise choice, though.  Most people would kick TTC in high gear in an effort to save their marriage, and I think it's commendable that you're mature enough to make a better choice.  I wish you nothing but the best and all the happiness in the world.

    Well said! And as everyone else said, stick around--we're here for you!

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  • Kara, sorry for what you are going through. I hope things get better between you and your husband soon.
  • Kara, I am sorry. This must be so tough!
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  • Im so very sorry to read this Kara. I know you must be going through an awful lot. Kudos to you for knowing that this isnt the best situation to bring a child into. Good Luck with everything and I hope in the end, regardless of the outcome, that you are happy!!!
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