1st Trimester

Who's not finding out?

Just curious. This is my 2nd baby & I really want to keep the gender a secret until delivery. My DH is not totally on board, but he'll play along. I really wanted to know the sex the first time around. I'm not 100% sure that I won't cave & change my mind later. Who else is waiting until D-day? 

Re: Who's not finding out?

  • We're not finding out.
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  • We didn't find out with DS, and won't find out with this baby either. It is amazing to find out on their B-Day.
  • We're also on team green!
  • I'd love it to be a surprise but I'm the type that wants to have everything ready in advance and if it's a girl, she's totally getting a purple nursery. lol

    We may surprise others though and just keep in to ourselves. =)

  • I want to wait until the delivery to find out the sex of the baby. Really badly. My husband isn't too keen on the idea. I'm slowly trying to convince him. I mean, when else are we going to have the opportunity for such a surprise. We'll be preparing for a baby either way, what's the sex of the baby matter Smile
  • We're not! it freaked my MIL but oh well...my baby, right? Devil

  • You sound exactly like me.  We found out with #1 (there was no way I was waiting!!) but with this one, I want to wait.  DH is not having it.  He wants to find out more this time than he did last time. 

    I knew I would cave, I mean I do want to know, but it's hard to wait when someone is egging you on to find out! So I made DH promise me that we would wait next time {we want 3!}

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  • We may or may not.  DH didnt want to with #1, but we did.  Now I will let him choose. 
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  • We're waiting too. I love a good surprise! Plus, if I knew I would probably spend a ton more money getting ready for the baby.
  • :::rasies hand:::: we aren't!

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  • We waited with DD - it was awesome!

    We aren't this time, only because I've been surprised enough with twins.  Had there only been 1 baby, we would have waited again.

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  • We will not be finding out this time. I didn't know with my first DD, we found out with our second DD. I liked the delivery surprise better!!!!
  • Okay, I still want to wait. I think. Glad to know I'm not the only shaky member of Team Green! Confused

    Before I was pg I said I'd want to wait b/c I have a girl & really wanted the next one to be a boy. I didn't want the slightest twinge of disappointment, which would be impossible when your baby is there in your arms (find out at delivery). Now that I am pg, I honestly don't care either way. Which is what my DH is using to try and convince me to go ahead & find out.

  • As of right now, we're planning on waiting....

    That said, it's only week 5 - so who knows if we'll change our minds between now and then.  But I'm hoping we won't - I'd really love the surprise!

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  • We're waiting, but both of our families think we're crazy.  :) 
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  • We found out with Zachary, but we're not finding out this time.  I hope we can hold strong at our big u/s!
  • Team green here!
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  • I waited until D-Day with DS and it was such a great surprise finding out that day.  DH and I both want to wait again.  Plus, all of our baby stuff is already gender neutral :)
  • It is totally my husband's call on this one.  Right now he is all about not finding out, but if he changes his mind that is ok too.  No one knows yet, but when my friend didn't find out, it drove my mother and my sister nuts, so i know it will make them even nuttier with me.  I have already picked out the bedding and will buy a girl and a boy outfit for the pumpkin to leave the hospital in.  I am anti-green and don't love most yellow, so that is my way of dealing. 
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  • We are waiting. :D
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  • This is our second as well and we are not finding out.
  • We aren't.

    Can't wait for family to start pressuring us.  It's a given.

  • We don't want to find out, but my family wants us to, So we will see if we can hold out. We found out with # 1
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  • We are not finding out
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  • We are not finding out either
  • I don't really want to...lets see if DH wants to know. Yet, I'm pretty sure he'll be cool with not knowing like our parents didn't know.
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