TTC After a Loss

DH vent ( a little long)

So I need to vent because I am so sad and disappointed in my dh. I got a positive OPK test Sunday evening and we did try that evening. But I made it clear that trying again last night was really important. But he was busy doing everything else and despite me saying it was getting late I eventually got so tired i just said i needed to go to sleep. He seemed shocked and surprised and immediately wrapped up and was ready to go. But of course I was already half asleep at this point and all i could do is go to sleep. This morning he doesn't understand why i am upset. But this was our first cycle on clomid and after so much disappointment over the last year I am really sad today that we didn't take advantage of one of the best 2 days to ttc. Well that is enough venting and maybe we'll be lucky from Sunday's attempt but i am so bummed today so I needed to vent with you girls.

Re: DH vent ( a little long)

  • Sorry you missed out. I have definitely been forcing myself to stay awake on those nights, it sucks. You could still be ok with the 1 BD!
    BFP #1- 1/16/09- Baby Ava stillborn at 32 weeks, possible cord accident, 7/30/09
    BFP #2- 1/5/10- Baby Jack born at 37w2d, 6lbs 13 oz, 8/24/10
    BFP #3- 7/30/11- Baby Boy Due April 3, 2012
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  • I am sorry.  My DH was being a pain too last week when I think I O'ed.  I don't think that they truly understand how important those few days really are.  My DH always says he doesn't want to feel pressured or used - but he makes things so difficult.  You should be happy that you did BD and hopefully that one day was enough!  Good Luck!
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