TTC After a Loss

I need to apologize

I have been so down lately, that I haven't been a very good TTCAL'er.  I have barely been on here, barely posting, and barely able to offer anyone support.  As much as I am so happy for all of the BFP's, they have also been really hard to see lately.  So, I apologize to all of you, really truly sincerely, I apologize.

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Re: I need to apologize

  • Don't you dare apologize. Everyone here, including the recent BFPs, understands completely. I'm having a hard time too, and I know they know that I could not be happier for them. It's tough to feel left behind and disappointed.

    If you need time, you take it, and come back when you're ready. And if you need anything else, we're here for you.

    And if you need Tyra, you just let me know. I'll send her right over.

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  • I understand. It's hard seeing all the BFP's. It should be your turn already. It seems the BFP's skip some of us month after month. It's no fun. I'm sorry.

    ::hugs::

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  • Sweetie, don't apologize.  It's perfectly ok and normal to be down.  Let us support you - you don't have to be sunshine and roses all the time for everyone.  

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  • Apology not necessary Amy, I am in a slump and can relate.  Just know that I am here for support no matter what!

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  • Don't apologize.  I'm sure we've all be there....I know I need to take little breaks here and there.  It's all part of dealing with the mountains and valleys of TTC. 

    I hope you feel better soon and always know that we are here for you.

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  • No worries lady. I'm sure everyone on here feels that way fairly often.
    BFP #1- 1/16/09- Baby Ava stillborn at 32 weeks, possible cord accident, 7/30/09
    BFP #2- 1/5/10- Baby Jack born at 37w2d, 6lbs 13 oz, 8/24/10
    BFP #3- 7/30/11- Baby Boy Due April 3, 2012
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  • Thanks my sweets!  I don't know what i'd do without you ladies sometimes, that why I feel bad when i'm not able to offer up much support in return.  You ladies always manage to get me all ferclempt!
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  • this is the one place you never have to apologize for how you feel about that stuff!  I'm in the same place...I'm so happy for them but it hurts so bad too. 

    ((Big hugs))..please don't be a stranger even if you want to do drive by b!tchings, we love you being around and miss you when you're gone....

  • I think everyone understands the need for a bump break, especially those who have been ttcing for a long time. Feel better soon.
  • I've been off and on too, we all get on when we can and give what we can. Don't be sorry.
  • I feel exactly the same way. 

    Big hugs!

  • I was wondering when you were going to apologize. You've been so rude. Kidding. Amy! You are always so kind and helpful you haven't done anything wrong. You are in a sad place. So? We've all been there. You'll get yourself out-we'll help. You have to believe your time will come. I promise it will.
  • I'm sorry you are ferclempt and I am giving you the biggest hug possible right now. Never apologize for feeling down. I am here for you...always.

    Can you feel the love?

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    02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
    10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
    3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
    10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

    ? The world thought I had it all, but I was waiting for you. ?
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  • Darling ~ don't you apologize!  We are all in this together.  We celebrate & feel sadness together! 
  • No worries dear, we understand. 
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  • No apologies needed.  We've all been there.  But we miss youWink
  • Thanks my friends.  I really do love you all so much!
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  • We've all had those sad feelings...no need to apologize. This is when we step in to lift you up. ((hugs))
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  • Hope you feel better soon :)
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