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Lack of labido and TTC?

ChristakimChristakim member
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I swear, I do not want to have sex at all except when I'm Oing.  And I don't want to have to do it then, but I do it cause I know it's baby sex.  It's good when it happens, but leading up to it, I'm dreading it.  I feel horrible about my body and I know that plays a large role in it, but seriously!!!  I need to WANT to have sex.  Vent over.....anyone feel/felt the same?
Ella- 8/22/08, Jules and Tuck- 12/15/10
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Re: Lack of labido and TTC?

  • rispergirlrispergirl
    I felt this way when we were TTC.  I was actually relieved to move onto IVF so we weren't allowed to try on our own anymore.  How sick is that? 
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  • duke'sgirlduke'sgirl

    imagerispergirl:
    I felt this way when we were TTC.  I was actually relieved to move onto IVF so we weren't allowed to try on our own anymore.  How sick is that? 

    This. Exactly this.

    (My 6 week pp appt was Friday, and DH has been eager to have sex. I think tonight is the night, but I have no desire to. I feel bad for the guy, though!)

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  • sixressixres
    I totally feel the same way... =(
    I'm frustrated we're not pregnant yet (by accident) when we're not even having enough sex for it to probably happen.  I keep telling myself to just do it more often...but then I'm tired or it's bright as day in our room and hate being naked.  Somehow we should be relaxing, but I don't see how that's possible when we feel this way about our bodies.
    Sorry you're feeling this way.
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