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I dont know if i should be livid or bummed...

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My mom put a card on the cake table for dh and I at our reception, and then she went to feed dd outside. When she came back in the card was gone...so she thought i found it. I never did. I thought it was odd that i never got a card from my mom for our wedding, but i just let it go. Then today she called and asked if i got the card. Thats when we realized that someone must have taken it. I keep hoping that it will turn up because it had 400 cash in it. It took her and my step dad a long time to save up that money. Things are tight for them right now. She was crying so hard when she found out i didnt get it. I called everyone that went to our reception, to see if maybe someone picked it up on accident...then i found out that a friend that was broke the night before the wedding, suddenly had 400 later that night. He went gambling. It makes me so mad yet sad to think that he might have taken it. I keep hoping that it will show up...but its just odd that he had the exact amount i am missing. Fingers crossed that it shows up....   :(
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  • elspethcordeliaelspethcordelia
    How sad!  I hope it turns up.  Do you think it could have gotten thrown away?
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  • emiliemadisonemiliemadison member
    Oh, wow. Um...yeah. The money is gone and I doubt you'll get it back. Unless your "friend" comes clean. Seriously, who does that? Not a friend.
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  • CMDR513CMDR513 member
    I'd be livid. Karma is a b-tch. Hope he gets what he deserves.
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  • 303jess303303jess303
    imageelspethcordelia:
    How sad!  I hope it turns up.  Do you think it could have gotten thrown away?
    I thought that at first, but the amount of time between when my mom set the card down and then came back inside was only about 5 minutes she said.
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  • 303jess303303jess303
    imageemiliemadison:
    Oh, wow. Um...yeah. The money is gone and I doubt you'll get it back. Unless your "friend" comes clean. Seriously, who does that? Not a friend.
    Tell me about it. I would have never thought it was him, until i found out he had the exact amount i lost. I have been trying to get ahold of him..no answer. yet another bad sign!
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  • kada626kada626 member
    I would be confronting the so called "friend" and see what he says.
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  • yo.mamayo.mama member
    i would be sick to my stomach and crazy angry.
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  • MamaMyers22MamaMyers22

    I wonder how many cards are missing.

    I'm so sorry for you and your mother.  I'm sure she was so freaking proud to give you such a wonderful gift.  I hope you get to the bottom of this and this dude gets what he deserves. 

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  • haleyw458haleyw458 member
    I would be so mad! I had my purse and everything in it stolen 2 weeks before Christmas last year by a friend. That included $350, my camera, and my ipod. I pressed charges but the police didn't do anything about it. It sucks to think a friend could do something like this, but that's way too much of a coincidence.
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  • AngelLuver_02AngelLuver_02 member

    imagekada626:
    I would be confronting the so called "friend" and see what he says.

    this.

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  • 303jess303303jess303
    imageMamaMyers22:

    I wonder how many cards are missing.

    I'm so sorry for you and your mother.  I'm sure she was so freaking proud to give you such a wonderful gift. 

    This made me tear up, because she really was...ugh....
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  • MamaMyers22MamaMyers22
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    imageMamaMyers22:

    I wonder how many cards are missing.

    I'm so sorry for you and your mother.  I'm sure she was so freaking proud to give you such a wonderful gift. 

    This made me tear up, because she really was...ugh....

    Awwww, now you made me tear up!  ::hugs::

    I want to find that dude and kick his ass myself Angry 

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    imageMamaMyers22:
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    imageMamaMyers22:

    I wonder how many cards are missing.

    I'm so sorry for you and your mother.  I'm sure she was so freaking proud to give you such a wonderful gift. 

    This made me tear up, because she really was...ugh....

    Awwww, now you made me tear up!  ::hugs::

    I want to find that dude and kick his ass myself Angry 

    Thank you :(
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  • MikesFavoriteWifeMikesFavoriteWife member

    imageCMDR513:
    I'd be livid. Karma is a b-tch. Hope he gets what he deserves.

    This exactly. I hope for your sake that the situation isn't what it seems and the card turns up somewhere. I'm sorry your having to go through this!

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  • BrideofrankenBrideofranken

    how do you know that he "suddenly" had exactly $400?

    Im sorry.

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  • TexasLadyBugTexasLadyBug
    I am so sorry. I would try an get a hold of that person and let them know at least leave a message. Karma will find the person who did this. Your mom rocks and I am so sorry she has been hurt by someone being selfish.?
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  • Miss.ModularMiss.Modular member
    umm why not confront this 'friend'   --- someone with no money, and suddenly 400 dollars richer at the end of your wedding?  I think you have your culprit.
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  • SarahgracescSarahgracesc

    Oh yuck!  What a horrible situation.

    I really hope that a) your friend did NOT take the money and b) that the card and money turn up. 

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  • 303jess303303jess303
    imageBrideofranken:

    how do you know that he "suddenly" had exactly $400?

    Im sorry.

    We were in vegas, and the night before our wedding he said he didnt even have money for food on the trip. Then the night after the wedding my best friend was with him and the went to play craps and my other friend said that he had 400.

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    imageMiss.Modular:
    umm why not confront this 'friend'   --- someone with no money, and suddenly 400 dollars richer at the end of your wedding?  I think you have your culprit.
    i get no answer when i call, im working on it.
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  • DNK777DNK777 member
    That is just awful.  I hate to say it, but it seems a lot more likely it was taken than accidentally thrown away.  I can't believe someone would do that if the "friend" actually did.
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