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Ever hear something that takes you to a different time? (bad thoughts mentioned)

krate24krate24 member
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I just read something on a different board about someone's DH needing to help her out with putting something on because she is hooked up to wires.  It had nothing to with me (obviously), but as soon as I read it the first thing I thought of was when I was in the hospital, still pregnant.  On like my third or fourth day there I was finally able to take a shower, but because I had an IV that I couldn't get wet, DH had to help me with the shower, drying off, getting dressed, everything.

Ugh, now I'm in a totally different place mentally.

Must shake it off!

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Re: Ever hear something that takes you to a different time? (bad thoughts mentioned)

  • 3ltlones3ltlones member

    I'm sorry. I completely understand.  When I was pregnant with Zoe I was really sick and was on home IV for fluids.  I needed DH to help me shower, get dressed.  Then I was on a zofran pump, do you know 5 months later I still haven't thrown away the needles, because I feel like I am throwing a piece of her away.

    So sorry, I know, things just bring memories back, it's hard.

    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • CLAYLIOVERCLAYLIOVER

    When I got the phone call the other evening telling me about my possible surgery and my chromosome 9 inversion it brought be back to my first m/c. Im not sure why. It was almost the same emotions. The crying and the numbness. Im starting to come out of it. But I totally understand. ::hugs::

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  • sydney0928sydney0928
    I have this moment almost every Sunday morning as I watch Meet the Press (yes I'm a dork) because I was watching that thinking I should go to the hospital if I didn't feel any movement soon. It totally ruins Sundays for me sometimes. I just can't even go there, but it takes a lot of mental strength to block it out.
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