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Recurrent pregnancy loss tests came back normal

charmednydivacharmednydiva member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
and no one seems to understand how devastating this is.
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Re: Recurrent pregnancy loss tests came back normal

  • sreillysreilly

    I am so sorry no one understands.  I think some people here will understand the devastation.  It makes it very hard to not know why.  I hope you get some answers soon!!

    My peri said that sometimes they just can't find a cause and that the good news is most women will still go on to have a healthy baby.   

     

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    We totally do. :::Hugs:::

    The randomness of the losses just makes it all the harder to move forward and try again. I'm sorry hon.

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  • ala_1220ala_1220
    I'm so sorry.  One of my really good friends, who was due the same day as me, had 2 previous m/c and they didn't know why either.  She is now pregnant and 22 weeks and healthy.  With her previous m/c she never got past 8 weeks.
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    GEAUX TIGERS!!!

    1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

    Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • HeidiseanHeidisean member
    same thing happened to me....did you send the baby for chromosomal testing to see if it was related to that? Did you and dh have genetic testing done? Our genetics came back normal and so did our rpl testing. So, this 3rd mc we sent the baby for chromosomal testing and the baby had triploidy (an extra set of all its chromosomes) which is a fluke and is not because of me or dh. I totally understand how you feel. GL
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  • Swede25Swede25 member
    I think it's hard knowing you just have rotten luck and that there's not something actually fixable.  Hang in there...

    TTC #1 since 7/08 After 3 years, 2 losses, 3 rounds of IUI, and one round of IVF, we finally have our dream come true! DS born 7/30/11

    TTC #2 off and on since 7/12

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  • charmednydivacharmednydiva member
    I don't know if I can try again knowing I'm basically tossing the dice after I've rolled snake eyes twice in a row.  Is it fair to any one, the babies that might die, me, my husband??
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    imagecharmednydiva:
    I don't know if I can try again knowing I'm basically tossing the dice after I've rolled snake eyes twice in a row.  Is it fair to any one, the babies that might die, me, my husband??

    Oh honey, I just want to hug you so hard right now. Take some time right now, and just let you and your DH heal as much as you can. My DH and I are on a break for at least the rest of the year, for this reason among many.

    I know exactly how you feel - I know, I hate when people say that, but I really do. There's no answer. I'm so sorry.

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  • charmednydivacharmednydiva member

    Thank you ladies. This day was like finding out about each loss all over again for me. I don't know why.  I actually spent a few days not crying and able to think about future babies for the last week or so and then this...  I just feel like without a reason...

     

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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member
    i totally feel you on this.. i too had my 2nd loss last month.. my tissue results came back normal too.. both losses were normal.. after hearing that i too was frustrated.. i'm at the point i need some answers.. it's like a slap in face to hear it's  rotten luck.. my heart goes out to you..
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • KarlsSweetie05KarlsSweetie05 member

    imagecharmednydiva:
    I don't know if I can try again knowing I'm basically tossing the dice after I've rolled snake eyes twice in a row.  Is it fair to any one, the babies that might die, me, my husband??

    (((HUGS)))  I feel the same way right now.  I have tears in my eyes because I've wanted to say this to someone and have them understand, but no one IRL will get it.  I understand.

    TTC #1 for over 5 years - too many to count IF treatments (tried everything and anything), repeat miscarriages. Finally, Sticky Success!! B/G Twins arrived 2011. VOTE on my Name List Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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