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With all due respect 0-3, STFU.

mfransdellmfransdell member
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This is like day 3 of this mess.

I feel like some of these posts are highly judgemental and come off incredibly rude. If you don't know the circumstance, keep your mouth shut. This is the 0-3 board, meaning brand new mamas, raging hormones, lack of sleep, pressure to do everything right and in some cases PPD.  Calling another mothers decision on how she feeds her child  "lazy" is sickening. Not feeding your kid at all because you are busy Bumping is lazy. Deciding that FFing is a better option for your family is a personal and acceptable decision.

For some people BFing is easy, for some it's hard. Some people Prefer to FF and some need to for medical resons either mom or baby. Some do both. Some people Pump because it is what is comfortable to them. Some people are at peace with their decision and some have a lot of guilt over it. And I suppose one or two are lazy A-holes who dont love their babies as much as you do. Can we knock this off now?

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Re: With all due respect 0-3, STFU.

  • mavilabridemavilabride member
    I don't know why everyone got so upset.  That chick CIO her 3 week old.  Nuff said.
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    YesYes
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    I heart u.

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  • orion09orion09
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::
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  • EJDIIIEJDIII member
    Totally off topic... what a cute picture in your siggy! Your baby is adorable!?
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  • majors31majors31

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

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  • ttmccootttmccoot
    no sh!t. nicely stated.
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  • mrsxoxo1598mrsxoxo1598
    lol. i agree but try not to pay any attention to stupid a$$ posts like that. i love the pp that she let her 3 wk old CIO, what a lazy b!tch, haha.
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  • krstokeskrstokes
    Yes
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  • orion09orion09
    imagemajors31:

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

    judging by your quick and angry response i would say you could use a nap.

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    I love you and completely agree.
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    I PPH you
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  • majors31majors31
    imageorion09:
    imagemajors31:

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

    judging by your quick and angry response i would say you could use a nap.

    nope. not angry at all.  i read the post and responded.  nothing else.  it is a few girls over here that post the same shiit every.day and it gets old to us as well.

     

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  • mmbartosekmmbartosek
    Sorry, but what's CIO?   Smile
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  • orion09orion09
    imagemajors31:
    imageorion09:
    imagemajors31:

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

    judging by your quick and angry response i would say you could use a nap.

    nope. not angry at all.  i read the post and responded.  nothing else.  it is a few girls over here that post the same shiit every.day and it gets old to us as well.

     

    lol. bless your heart. "this too shall pass" this meaning 0-3 board.

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  • Erin5849Erin5849 member
    imagemfransdell:

    This is like day 3 of this mess.

    I feel like some of these posts are highly judgemental and come off incredibly rude. If you don't know the circumstance, keep your mouth shut. This is the 0-3 board, meaning brand new mamas, raging hormones, lack of sleep, pressure to do everything right and in some cases PPD.  Calling another mothers decision on how she feeds her child  "lazy" is sickening. Not feeding your kid at all because you are busy Bumping is lazy. Deciding that FFing is a better option for your family is a personal and acceptable decision.

    For some people BFing is easy, for some it's hard. Some people Prefer to FF and some need to for medical resons either mom or baby. Some do both. Some people Pump because it is what is comfortable to them. Some people are at peace with their decision and some have a lot of guilt over it. And I suppose one or two are lazy A-holes who dont love their babies as much as you do. Can we knock this off now?

    Yes I heart you.

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  • majors31majors31
    imageorion09:
    imagemajors31:
    imageorion09:
    imagemajors31:

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

    judging by your quick and angry response i would say you could use a nap.

    nope. not angry at all.  i read the post and responded.  nothing else.  it is a few girls over here that post the same shiit every.day and it gets old to us as well.

     

    lol. bless your heart. "this too shall pass" this meaning 0-3 board.

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  • mfransdellmfransdell member
    imagemajors31:

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

    You are almost done here lady! I remember how rough those first few days/weeks home were. If a brand new mama getting no sleep, trying to recover and dealing with BFing issues and PPD was told she was being LAZY, wow. I couldnt imagine!

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  • nykolanykola
    Oh my gosh, can we PLEASE let this go and move on? The horse...it's beaten and dead and so is its mother.
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  • majors31majors31
    imagemfransdell:
    imagemajors31:

    imageorion09:
    hehehehehe :grabs popcorn to watch the super sleep deprived mommies get angry::

    not all of us are sleep deprived.  and most of us aren't dumbasses.

    You are almost done here lady! I remember how rough those first few days/weeks home were. If a brand new mama getting no sleep, trying to recover and dealing with BFing issues and PPD was told she was being LAZY, wow. I couldnt imagine!

    you're right. and for people giving 883783437491723% to their jobs or kids and aren't on to know some posters/posts are just shiit starters, it can be difficult.

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  • mfransdellmfransdell member

    imagemavilabride:
    I don't know why everyone got so upset.  That chick CIO her 3 week old.  Nuff said.

    no way! Because letting your 3wk old CIO isnt lazy? Pot meet kettle.

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  • JandR07JandR07
    I agree and thank you!
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  • mfransdellmfransdell member

    imagenykola:
    Oh my gosh, can we PLEASE let this go and move on? The horse...it's beaten and dead and so is its mother.

    That's the whole point. It's not getting "let go" of. A week ago Moms who used swings were lazy, it's always something and 0-3 is NOT the place to pass judgement.

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  • easyBreezieeasyBreezie
    imagemfransdell:

    imagemavilabride:
    I don't know why everyone got so upset.  That chick CIO her 3 week old.  Nuff said.

    no way! Because letting your 3wk old CIO isnt lazy? Pot meet kettle.

    exactly!

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  • MrsKellyOrBustMrsKellyOrBust
    imagemfransdell:

    imagenykola:
    Oh my gosh, can we PLEASE let this go and move on? The horse...it's beaten and dead and so is its mother.

    That's the whole point. It's not getting "let go" of. A week ago Moms who used swings were lazy, it's always something and 0-3 is NOT the place to pass judgement.

    Everyone falls off their high horses somewhere on the 6-12 board

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