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TTC After a Loss
Scout05
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Post D&C Question...
Scout05
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Okay, this has been asked before. But I'm lazy, so just answer it again.
(Wow, apparently I am also combative. Sorry!)
My first D&C in May, recovery was easy. Almost no bleeding or pain after.
This time (procedure done on Friday) is going differently. I woke up this morning and I am bleeding more than I would have thought (not soaking a pad, but have had to change a few times) and it....hurts in my vagina. That's the only way to put it. If I sit down too hard or twist a little, I get a sharp and lingering pain in the ladybits. Not the ute, but the bits.
Is this sounding similar to your experiences? I am calling tomorrow, just to check, but I wondered if anyone here had something like this post-D&C.
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Re: Post D&C Question...
I had a similar pain. Was it a diff doc that did the procedure? Were you further along this time then last time? I assumed it was from them doing the dialating part- the whole in and out motion.
How are you doing mentally? Ive been thinking of you. Hope you are well.
-m/c at 11w2d due to partial molar 2008 -m/c #2 2009
Beautiful daughter born February 2011
**Ultimate TTCALer 2009**
We were still in NYC last time, and I was further along by quite a bit then. I'm sure it's normal, I just expected to feel the same as the previous time, so I was caught off guard. Oh well, I get to have a fun call to the nurse who just loooves me (read, hates me because I am a total PITA)
Emotionally...I'm a mess, to be honest. But it's so new, so I'm cutting myself some slack. Hate watching DH go through it. Hell, I hate going through it too. Sucks.
How are YOU my dear? I was thinking about you, and how I hadn't seen an update lately. (I know, it's hard to know what to say these days. I just seem to post bitching things myself).
Sorry the nurse hates you
I love the nurse I always talk to at my office. No matter how neurotic I am, she's always very nice and empathetic.?
Emma - I was wondering the same thing as ambrandau. Did you have another loss??
The nurse is crazy, and for the folks that were here for my second loss, they know why I despise her.
Emma did have a loss recently, and I've been missing her and worrying about her. I hate that we are all in this weird limbo state - trying to heal and look to the future. Without knowing how to do it.
Is there a different nurse you can talk to when you call? Im sorry you dont like that nurse- is it grounds to find a new office? Those pains for me didn't last too long, stopped a few days before the bleeding/spotting finished.
Im sorry you are having a rough time. Its not fair to go through it once, let along three times. I wish there was something Ic ould do or say to make it magically better for you.
I'm doing okay. I have an appt in december to talk with my doc. I recently found out I have a strong family history of m/c's, so I want to see if that will encourage her to test me. DH doesn't want to try again, unless we know whats going on. Other then all that, i'm doing fine. Busy with work, busy with winter.
-m/c at 11w2d due to partial molar 2008 -m/c #2 2009
Beautiful daughter born February 2011
**Ultimate TTCALer 2009**