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Will you start your kids in school when they Just turned 5 so that they are the youngest in there class. OR wait until they are 6 so that they are the oldest in there class?

I have to make this descision twice. It sucks to be the youngest cant drive your soph here, only 17 when you graduate, have to wait until your sr yr in college to go out being 21.

On the flip side I am sure DD would be ready and I would hate to hold her back.

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  • he will start when he's 5
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  • he will start when he is 5. I started 1st grade when I was 5 and actually liked being one of the youngest people in my class.
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  • I will start her at 5, I am sure. Sounds dumb, but she is really smart already, and I think keeping her out another year will do her no good at all. I never even thought of it really, but now that I do, I know for sure it will be when she is 5.

    Makes me sad to think of it!

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  • I'm going to start my daughters when they're 5.  I was 4 when I started Kindergarten (Nov birthday) and I did fine.  If they're ready at 5, which I'm sure they will be, that's when I'm starting them.
  • Our girls will start preschool when they are 3 so I think it will depend on how they are when they are 5 in July to see what we will do. I was always the oldest in my grade school classes (bday in Dec) and it was pretty cool to be one of the 1sts for everything. I actually had not even thought about this, but I think they will probably go when they are 5
  • DD was born mid-May, so I'm not technically part of your range, but I don't see the problem with being young for your grade. I was born in December and the cut-off for school when I was a kid was Dec. 31st, so I was always the youngest. It wasn't a big deal, IMO. And in college, I ended up being friends with people from classes above and below me (DH was a soph when I was a senior!), so it didn't matter what my age was in relation to the people in my year.
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  • I have one in each month! lol

    We started DS when he wasn't even 5 yet. School started on the 18th and he turned 5 on the 22nd. We were a little nervous because hewas so young but figured that if he didn't do well then it would be ok to let him repeat. He is doing awesome and loves school! We will be doing the same with the girls since we will still have the option of them repeating if need be.

  • Right now, I'm leaning towards starting her just after she's turned 5.  However, I'm getting a lot of pressure from my mom about holding her back until she's 6.  Reason being that my sis, who's birthday is 8/22, started just after she turned 5 and ended up being held back in 1st grade because she just couldn't keep up.  My mom swears it made a huge difference, but whatever...

    So yeah...right now the plan is to start her just after she turns 5.

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    I'm going to start my daughters when they're 5.  I was 4 when I started Kindergarten (Nov birthday) and I did fine.  If they're ready at 5, which I'm sure they will be, that's when I'm starting them.

    Me too. I only turned 5 in October and I was more than ready. DD will be turn 5 the June before school starts. She will be there @ 5!

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  • I'll probably evaluate when she gets closer to potentially starting, but I would hope she'd be ready by 5. No offense to those saying it, but how do you know your child is smart at this point? Not trying to burst any bubbles, but don't you think its a bit early to be labeling them as smart?

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  • I didn't think June/July was all that late?  I knew lots of kids with birthdays in October/November, and they usually started kindergarten at 4.

     

    K will start kindergarten at 5.  The only time I'd hold a kid back is if 1. I didn't think he/she was ready for kindergarten or 2. his/her birthday was actually late, like october or november.

  • I will start DD when she is 5, unless it is clear that she is just NOT ready at that point.

    I started school early... actually when I was 4 and I turned 5 a few months after starting school. I was always the youngest in my class and my group of friends and I liked it! It did suck not being able to actually go out once my friends could, but most of my friends were at least 2 years older than me anyway so it really wouldn't have mattered. Besides, they just bought the beer and we drank at someone's house Stick out tongue So I didn't really miss out on anything.

     

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  • I bet we will start Kai when he is 6... just so I can have a year alone with him!
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  • DS was born Aug. 20; cut-off here is Sept. 1. Our current plan is to start him late. We based this on some research, opinions of educators, his small size, usual maturity of boys, etc. He will start preschool at 4, with the current plan being for him to attend that for 2 years. But we can change our minds and have him attend only 1 year of preschool and start kindergarten at 5 if we want.

    After spending a lot of time considering this, I have concluded there is no right answer for this; it depends on the child and parents. GL either way! 

  • For some reason I've been thinking about this too although I feel it's awhile off.  I think I will probably start him at 5 if he is ready, but if he is not we will wait til he is 6. I really think it depends on the kid.
  • DS will start when he is 5. He'll turn 6 a few day after kindergarten starts. I wish he could start when he was 4 like I did, but they have since changed the cut off from 9/30 to 8/1. So he'll be older than all of the other kids in his class.
  • I didnt think you could choose if the birthday was before hte school year started?  Why would you want to delay your kid? 

    My son will start school at 5.

  • We're thinking we will wait until he is 6.  Both my DH and I started school right when we turned 5 (DH was born in June and I was born in August).  Both of us really struggled all through school.  We always felt like we were behind everyone else and weren't able to learn things as quickly. 

    I don't want my children to feel that way.

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  • And by the way, staring school at 5 is not being young for the grade, it actually means he'll be the correct age for each grade.  5 for kinder, 6 for 1st, 7 for 2nd, 8 for 3rd, etc.
  • I am an August baby and so is DS.  I went when I was 5.  I will decide when DS gets closer to 5 to decide but for now I'm going to say he will go when he is 5.

     

  • I have no clue right now.  It depends on how my son does!  I don't want to say yes he will if he is not ready maturity wise.  I think it is silly to decide this now.
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    I will start DD when she is 5, unless it is clear that she is just NOT ready at that point.

    ditto this for my DS...i was born in june and started kindergarten at 5 (no preschool, either).

  • I was the youngest in my class. My birthday is September 29th, and I actually didn't start driving until my junior year. I was 17 when I graduated.

    Yeah, it sucked but it wasn't the worst thing in the entire world. I have no permanent emotional scars from it.

    So, if we feel he's ready, we'll start DS in school right when he turns 5.

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  • It's funny that this is such an issue nowadays.  When I grew up the cut-off was Dec 31 and if you were born in that year you went.  But that was when Kindergarten was half a day of sharing and playing and singing songs.  Now it's a full day of the three Rs and completely developmentally inappropriate for a WHOLE LOT of kids.  Of course, some are ready for it, but lots aren't.  Believe me, I taught K a few years ago and I hated it.  So now we have this issue of when to start kids, send them or hold them back?  Are they ready for a full day of academics?  I think if K were what it used to be then this wouldn't be an issue.  And hey, we all learned to read and write, didn't we???  (well, that's another issue, let's not go there...)
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  • As of right now, we are planning on starting DS when he is 5. I was among the oldest in my class and it had it draw backs as well....
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  • He'll start when he's 5 - I was always the youngest and it was fine. I would rather him be younger than the other kids than older.
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  • I think it depends upon the child's emotional and social maturity in addition to scholastic readiness.  In Maddie's case I will more than likely be starting her later but a lot can change between now and then.
  • When she's 5. She was born 2 days after my birthday so she'll be on the same schedule I was. Things went very well for me so no reason to change it. However, if I think she isn't able to handle kindergarten at 5 than we'll wait till 6.
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  • DS isn't in that age range, but I started Kindergarten when I was 4 and didn't really have problems with being young for my grade--in the upper grades.  While it did suck to not be 21 until my senior year of college, I didn't really drink anyway, so it wasn't that big of a problem.

    The times that I did have trouble were from 1st through 3rd grade.  I just wasn't mature enough to handle sitting still, being organized, and doing homework.

    If I have to make this decision in the future, it'll entirely depend on the maturity of my DC at that time.

  • 5.  I was 5 when I started school and I lived. lol
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  • I will start him when he is 5.  DS loves his little "classes" at daycare now, and he is very social.  I wouldn't want to hold him back just because he was born in July. 

    Unless something happens between now and then, I will start him in kindergarten when he is 5.  My brother and I both have July birthdays and we were both strong academically. 

  • Natalie's birthday is July 27th, and Lukas's birthday is May 29th.  The plan as of now is to start Kindergarten at age 5. 
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