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I saw this and thought of everyone here


I'm a very private person when it comes to emotional things and I thought if I was going to buy something in rememberance of the baby I lost, this would be it. It could be something for me that was a symbol of what I lost and overcame in a very subtle way. 

I know people consider birthstone type of jewelry, but this avoids that issue of what stone if you are conflicted.

Brenna Married 4.30.05

Mom to Teagan 4.11.07 and Cora 9.30.11

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Re: I saw this and thought of everyone here

  • I'll definitely check out the site, but for me my rememberance is the stork with baby charm my husband got for my charm bracelet after we found out I was pregnant.  Even though we lost the baby, the feelings and joy and excitement we felt are represented by that charm.
    2009: 1st IVF began 12/29, cancelled due to OHSS; 1st full IVF began 2/10 ER 2/27 ET 3/4 BFN 3/13; IVF #2 began 5/23 ER 6/4 ET 6/9 BFP 6/18 Lost our baby on 9/12. 2010: IVF #3 (w/PGD) began 2/1 ER: 2/15 ET: 2/20 BFN 3/1; Took a break for hernia surgery and recovery; IVF #4 (w/PGD) began 6/30 ER 7/13 ET 7/18 BFN 7/27; IVF #5 began 10/23 ER 11/5 ET 11/10 Low Pos 11/19 BFN 11/22; Took a break: got a 2nd opinion,changed insurance,chose a new RE,and recharged emotionally. 2011: "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 6/4, 6/6, and 6/7 BFN on 6/21. "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 7/3 & 7/5 BFN on 7/19. "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 7/30, 8/1 & 8/2...the journey continues into 2012 with three more IVFs and 6 more IUIs...now looking at IVF with donor egg Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • I really, really like this. I too have been struggling with the idea of getting something, and birthstones are not subtle enough for me. I don't want everyone who knows me to know just what the item is for, you know?

    This is cute, and I would wear it. I wonder if they can do white gold...hmm...

    BFP #1 08-21-2009
    Miscarriage at 12 wks 10-19-09
    BFP #2 03-23-10
    R.J.~Born Still due to pPROM at 21 Weeks~07/19/2010
    ..The little boy made for me in the stars.
    BFP # 3 11-15-2010~
    Emergent Cerclage placed at 18wks6days..
    R.A Born Screaming!! 07/10/11
  • Funny that you mention this tonight, I posted this earlier on TTCAL:


    We wanted something for our home, so that our babies were always here with us.

    I also will now be adding to my memorial tattoo. I would love to add a star someday for a baby I bring home. There's a pic in my bio.

  • when we lost our last little one, I got this ring:

    A Red, Red Rose Ring - Victorian Era

    From an Etsy seller (StudioRegency).

    It's an awesome remembrance. 

  • I love the ring!   DH and I are also planting a tree in memory of the baby we lost.  We are Jewish so we are planting a tree in Israel... the forest the we are planting in is the Childrens of the Holocaust memorial forest. 
    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
  • After having lo I got a necklace that has two baby feet and a saying, after the m/c im adding a cross that says faith.

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