TTC after 35

update...

Still nothing in the sac and no growth since Monday....so onto a D&C we go. D&C scheduled for Tuesday at 2:15.

THIS SUCKS!!!

(and yes I meant to yell that :)

 

 

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  • Girl, this does suck!!!  I'm so, so sorry.  Feel free to yell as much as you want.  We love you, Char.  (((hugs))) 
  • I'm really sorry this didn't work. What is next for you, beyond the D&C?

    And yes, this totally sucks, I agree. 

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    I'm really sorry this didn't work. What is next for you, beyond the D&C?

    And yes, this totally sucks, I agree. 

    After the new year I'm thinking we might try IVF again....what really stinks is that we will be completely OOP for this one except for meds....I have maxed out my crappy insurance for "family planning" and it didn't even cover all this IVF.

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  • ....unless of course we somehow manage to get a miracle BFP before then...if my moldy eggs and DH's crippled sperm can actually find each other the old fashioned way.
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  • Oh babydoll I am SO sorry.

    Enormous, cross border hugs for you. Why oh why does this have to happen ::shakes fist at reproduction gods::

    But you are strong, and you are brave. xxxxxx

  • {{{{HUGS}}}}  It does suck sometimes!  I hope things start to go better.  Will be keeping you in my thoughts!!
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  • I agree. It sucks, it sucks hardcore.  I'm so sorry.

  • Sorry to hear this news.  It does suck, no other way to say it.

    Please know that you and your DH are in my thoughts. 

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  • Go ahead and yell, because life does suck royal donkey balls at times!  It also stinks that you have to wait until Tuesday for your D&C--way to go for your Dr. in prolonging your misery (being completely sarcastic there).
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  • Oh Char, feeling bad for you.  Good luck on Tuesday - hope you get through it okay.  Hugs.
  • Honey, I am so, so sorry.

    Ugh.

    This all sucks so much. :( 

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  • CHAR..(yes I meant to yell that too)

    I am soo sad for you. I have been thinking of you all day..I agree..nice to wait till Tuesday..poor thing.

    However, you are strong and can do this. If you are OOP you will find a way I promise..it is soo worth it. Lets keep hoping for the old fashioned way!

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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.  Sorry you have to wait so long for the D&C...hope everything goes well and you are back on track in no time.
     
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  • crap, crap, crap.  I'm so sorry Char.  I hope you get KU the old fashioned way. I'll be cheering on your ovaries. (((hugs)))

     

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  • what can I say? ?I'm very sorry for all that you're going through and keeping you in my thoughts & wishing you all the best.
  • Oh, Char, it DOES suck.  I'm so sorry.  *hugs*
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    YES, THIS REALLY DOES SUCK!!!!! I'm sorry Char. Sending all of my hugs to you.
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  • Oh Char...I'm so sorry to hear this news.  T&P for you and DH as you go through this difficult time.  Good luck trying the old fashioned way and working out a game plan for your next IVF.
  • So very sorry. I wish all the best to you and your DH.
  • THIS DOES TOTALLY SUCK! (and I meant to yell that too.)

    I'm so sorry Char.  Please know I am thinking about you and sending you lots of <<Hugs>>.

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  • Yell, scream, cry, drink...do whatever you need to do, Char. (((((hugs))))

    I'm so sorry.

  • I'm so sorry Char.  That royally sucks and blows! 

    We are all here for you.  >>hugs<<

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  • I'm soooo sorry!:(  T&P for you.
  • Oh, Char!  I am so very sorry!  You are in my t&ps!
  • Char, I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))

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  • I am so sorry to hear this, I hope the procedure goes smoothly.
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  • I'm so sorry...that totally sucks.
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  • It sucks bad! I'm so sorry your going through this.
  • So sorry to hear this Char.....
  • I am so sorry for your loss Sad
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  • I am so so sorry for you! It truly does suck. If you want to talk, PM me.
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  • We were away for the weekend, so I'm just seeing this now.  I'm so sorry that you're having to go thru this!!  It absolutely sucks!

    I can't remember if I told you about this (i feel like I've been telling a lot of people lately), but there is a version of IVF that's a lot cheaper and has been shown to have better results than normal IVF for women with DOR and poor quality eggs.  I thought that it sounded hokey, but it worked for me...first BFP we've ever gotten and while we're not out of the woods yet, so far, so good.  The problem is that not all RE's know about it yet or do the procedure.  I don't want to bother you if you're not interested, so send me a shout out if you want more details. 

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    IUI #1: December 2008 - BFN
    IVF #1: Microdose Lupron - July 2009; only got 1 egg; BFN
    IVF #2: Natural IVF - Sept 2009; BFP!; D&C Nov. 2009
    IVF #3: Natural IVF - ER: Feb 4, 2010 - 1 "M2" egg retrieved; ET: Feb 9; Beta#1 (19dpo): 2567; Beta #2: 6933; BFP w/ singleton w/strong hrtbt! DS born October 2010
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    IVF #4: Natural IVF - ER: Nov. 20, 2011; ET: Nov. 25, 2011; BFP! Beta#1 (19dpo): 1918; Saw hrtbt on 12/28/11!
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