I'm really sorry this didn't work. What is next for you, beyond the D&C?
And yes, this totally sucks, I agree.
After the new year I'm thinking we might try IVF again....what really stinks is that we will be completely OOP for this one except for meds....I have maxed out my crappy insurance for "family planning" and it didn't even cover all this IVF.
Warning
No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
....unless of course we somehow manage to get a miracle BFP before then...if my moldy eggs and DH's crippled sperm can actually find each other the old fashioned way.
Warning
No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
Go ahead and yell, because life does suck royal donkey balls at times! It also stinks that you have to wait until Tuesday for your D&C--way to go for your Dr. in prolonging your misery (being completely sarcastic there).
TTC #1 Cycle #18
m/c Jan. 9, 2007,
chemical pg May 4, 2007,
methotrexate shot Oct. 5, 2007--m/c Oct. 9, 2007,
IUI Nov. 17, 2007 It worked! beta 11/30 & 12/6
TTC #2
Cycle #5
IUI July 20, 2009 -BFN 8-3-09
Cycle #6
IUI August 17, 2009-BFP! 8-31-09, beta 9-1-09, 9-8-09, saw the H/B 9-22-09
EDD 5-10-10
Oh Char...I'm so sorry to hear this news. T&P for you and DH as you go through this difficult time. Good luck trying the old fashioned way and working out a game plan for your next IVF.
Blocked tubes due to ruptured appendix
IVF#1 Ectopic - tube removed; FET#1 CP; IVF#2 BFP!
Beta#1 13dpo 115; Beta#2 15dpo 248; Beta #3 20dpo 2215 U/S#1 6w1d HR 99; U/S#2 8w HR 165; U/S#3 10w HR 176 and moving all around!
Bedrest at 28 weeks due to preterm labor; released to modified bedrest at 34 weeks; released to full activity at 37 weeks
BabyNantucket born at 37 weeks 4 days 7lbs8oz 19in
Success is getting up just one more time than you fall down.
We were away for the weekend, so I'm just seeing this now. I'm so sorry that you're having to go thru this!! It absolutely sucks!
I can't remember if I told you about this (i feel like I've been telling a lot of people lately), but there is a version of IVF that's a lot cheaper and has been shown to have better results than normal IVF for women with DOR and poor quality eggs. I thought that it sounded hokey, but it worked for me...first BFP we've ever gotten and while we're not out of the woods yet, so far, so good. The problem is that not all RE's know about it yet or do the procedure. I don't want to bother you if you're not interested, so send me a shout out if you want more details.
Re: update...
I'm really sorry this didn't work. What is next for you, beyond the D&C?
And yes, this totally sucks, I agree.
After the new year I'm thinking we might try IVF again....what really stinks is that we will be completely OOP for this one except for meds....I have maxed out my crappy insurance for "family planning" and it didn't even cover all this IVF.
Oh babydoll I am SO sorry.
Enormous, cross border hugs for you. Why oh why does this have to happen ::shakes fist at reproduction gods::
But you are strong, and you are brave. xxxxxx
I agree. It sucks, it sucks hardcore. I'm so sorry.
Sorry to hear this news. It does suck, no other way to say it.
Please know that you and your DH are in my thoughts.
Honey, I am so, so sorry.
Ugh.
This all sucks so much.
CHAR..(yes I meant to yell that too)
I am soo sad for you. I have been thinking of you all day..I agree..nice to wait till Tuesday..poor thing.
However, you are strong and can do this. If you are OOP you will find a way I promise..it is soo worth it. Lets keep hoping for the old fashioned way!
crap, crap, crap. I'm so sorry Char. I hope you get KU the old fashioned way. I'll be cheering on your ovaries. (((hugs)))
Yes,I'm smiling...I'm a marathoner!
Bloggy McBloggerson
CO Nestie Award Winner-Prettiest Brain-Back to Back!
2011 Bests
5K-22:49 10K-47:38 Half Mary-1:51:50
2012 Race Report
1/1-New Year's 5K-22:11
2/11-Sweetheart Classic 4-mile-29:49
3/24-Coulee Chase 5K-21:40
5/6-Colorado Marathon-4:08:30
5/28-Bolder Boulder 10K
THIS DOES TOTALLY SUCK! (and I meant to yell that too.)
I'm so sorry Char. Please know I am thinking about you and sending you lots of <<Hugs>>.
Yell, scream, cry, drink...do whatever you need to do, Char. (((((hugs))))
I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry Char. That royally sucks and blows!
We are all here for you. >>hugs<<
Blocked tubes due to ruptured appendix
IVF#1 Ectopic - tube removed; FET#1 CP; IVF#2 BFP!
Beta#1 13dpo 115; Beta#2 15dpo 248; Beta #3 20dpo 2215 U/S#1 6w1d HR 99; U/S#2 8w HR 165; U/S#3 10w HR 176 and moving all around!
Bedrest at 28 weeks due to preterm labor; released to modified bedrest at 34 weeks; released to full activity at 37 weeks
BabyNantucket born at 37 weeks 4 days 7lbs8oz 19in
Success is getting up just one more time than you fall down.
We were away for the weekend, so I'm just seeing this now. I'm so sorry that you're having to go thru this!! It absolutely sucks!
I can't remember if I told you about this (i feel like I've been telling a lot of people lately), but there is a version of IVF that's a lot cheaper and has been shown to have better results than normal IVF for women with DOR and poor quality eggs. I thought that it sounded hokey, but it worked for me...first BFP we've ever gotten and while we're not out of the woods yet, so far, so good. The problem is that not all RE's know about it yet or do the procedure. I don't want to bother you if you're not interested, so send me a shout out if you want more details.
IUI #1: December 2008 - BFN
IVF #1: Microdose Lupron - July 2009; only got 1 egg; BFN
IVF #2: Natural IVF - Sept 2009; BFP!; D&C Nov. 2009
IVF #3: Natural IVF - ER: Feb 4, 2010 - 1 "M2" egg retrieved; ET: Feb 9; Beta#1 (19dpo): 2567; Beta #2: 6933; BFP w/ singleton w/strong hrtbt! DS born October 2010
TTC#2
IVF #4: Natural IVF - ER: Nov. 20, 2011; ET: Nov. 25, 2011; BFP! Beta#1 (19dpo): 1918; Saw hrtbt on 12/28/11!