I'm not gonna explain the back story because I know people on this board don't enjoy to hear my sob stories. I'm just upset because my sister has done an awful thing. She is sabbotaging my baby shower that my Mom and Aunt are throwing me. My sister is not attending, and she has called every mutual friend and all of the family members and convinced them not to come either. I'm just very hurt that somebody could be that cruel.
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This.
This is exactly what happened. No lies or exaggerations.
She said, "I'm supposed to be pregnant first. I'm 10 years older than you, married and with a good job. You're a welfare case living like a ******* (she is racist, another reason we have never gotten along)."
I responded with, "Please, do not speak to me again. Pregnancy is not a competition. These things are up to god."
So she called my cousins, closest friends and a few mutual family friends that I've known for years, and told them that I don't know who the father of my child is, and that I invited them 'out of pity', and that all I'm looking for is their gifts and money. None of this is true, obviously.
And why would these people all listen to her? Is it possible that they wouldn't think such an idea would far from the truth?
I'm guessing they are in a similar situation as most people here, and always wondering which is the lie and which is the truth when it comes to you.
I've just gotta be honest here and say that if your friends and family won't come after her telling them that...then they're not very good friends and family. I have a psychotic sister (to the point that we don't speak at all anymore) and if she called my friends and family and said something trying to make them not come to my shower...they'd laugh and hang up on her. They'd then proceed to come to my shower.
If you have faith in your family and friends...don't let her bug you. If not, you're gonna need new family and friends. Sorry to hear this is happening.
How stupid of your sister and equally stupid of the people who were invited that might not go because of her.
If someone called me like that and told me that crap, I would be tempted to tell her to go fcuk herself and still go to the shower. You need new family and friends if some of them don't show.
ok wait...and ALL those people that she individually called agreed and basically said F her we're not going?
she has no right to talk to you like that but I mean...can;t don;t you give ALL those people a little more credit?
I think that most of the people will ignore her and come anyway. I would if someone told me these kinds of lies, obviously she is not looking out for anyone but herself.
Try not to worry about it, I know that it will be very difficult to ignore her, but if anyone believes the lies or drama then they weren't very good friends to begin with. Just be prepared to calmly tell anyone who asks that you don't know what has gotten into her and that of course none of it is true and apologize for her behavior. If you avoid bashing her you will come out looking like the mature one and gain back any trust that was breached by this incident.
GL, it will all be over soon! Try to stay calm for Nathan's sake.
And why would you have to clarify that? Hmmmm....
If your friends/family won't come because of something she said, I doubt that was their only reason.?
Umm... This.
This seems a little like a vent/gripe to me. You're not confessing anything here.
As for your story... I have a hard time believing people wouldn't show up with something they were told. And if they were good friends and family they would talk with you about it, not just believe something hearsay and completely change there plan of action.