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Confused?
I do not know what an AE means. Or Diane. Is this some inside joke? Everytime I post something, I get called these things. I apologize in advance if this is something I should know, but I am truly lost. The only thing I've heard is that you think I am somebody else, or making things up. I don't understand why you people would think this about me. I have never done anything to offend anybody on here and this all started because I asked for advice about my Husbands depression. Now it has turned into some joke? I am truly blown away and the rudeness of all of this. I turned to you women for advice on a serious life situation that we are going through and you make these jokes about this Diane girl. I don't even know what to say. I really enjoyed this message board until last night. Who attacks somebody they don't know for no reason, when I was just saying thanks to the ladies that helped me out.
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Re: Confused?
AE= alter ego
someone creates a diffrent S/n just to come on here and stir *** up. i dont really post here a ton, so im not sure why they think you are one. but if they are being mean or hurtful, my guess is that posting a message telling them not to be...isn't going to help it. GL
I just joined because I just went on maternity leave last week and had nothing to do. I did not know they attacked new people. I didn't think it was anything crazy. I was just seeking some marriage advice about my DH's issues. Oh well.
Oh, thank you. I didn't know what AE stood for. I think that is personally just crazy. And you're probably right, this post won't help, but I was just so hurt and confused by their responses to such a serious situation.
::grabbing popcorn and getting comfy::
I don't know you, and I'm sure you're nice, and I hope you don't take offense to me saying this, but that is just plain rude. I posted one question that I was very concerned about involving my marriage of all things, and I got attacked because I am new and not well known yet. It is very rude that you people sit here and poke fun at somebody you don't know when all they were doing was seeking advice on something as important as marriage.
Man!! I go to lunch in 20 mins, I'm going to miss all this
haha
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/24926006.aspx
THIS is my post. I do not see anything in there worth making fun of. It is a serious situation to me and I am blown away by some of you.
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/24941201.aspx
This is the one she posted last night That i guess people started saying it was Diane or something. I have NO idea what's going on...I always miss the night stuff because I'm never on!
whether or not you are this Dine/FreckelRed lady or not...
Find a diffrent board where you feel like people support you... it's obviously not here and as long as you keep posting here your going to get sh!t.
Don't expect people to feel sorry and sympathize, just move on already
No one is laughing AT your marital problems; not one reply was "lol that's funny that you're having problems with DH".
Most ppl are just surmising that you are indeed Diane/FreckleRed; not laughing at your actual problems.
I don't remember this board being titled, "Licensed Marital Therapists". Sure we all could use some sound advice from others now & then, but I'm sorry, with something as personal as deep marital issues (as it sounds like you're experiencing) the LAST place I would go is a message board. The FIRST place I would go is to DH, then maybe counseling. Not a bunch of strangers who know nothing about your life/marriage/DH/etc.
Then why even post this thread if you not looking for sympathy? Why not just move to another board where people might treat you diffrently? Do you think this thread is going to change anyone's mind? Give people more credit.
I seem to remember on one of DianeN9's AWish threads that her real name is Amanda. Maybe Glampup will better recognize it?
Your style of posting and the way you word things and immediately take the "victim" stance in everything I would say is what does it. If it really upsets you so much either don't post or don't post things that are so drama-filled.
I call BSC no matter who/what you are!
Why, oh why would you ask the marital advice of women whom you've only "known" for a week?!?!? If you and DH were truly having trouble (in the manner that you speak of) chances are that you would be embarrassed and pensive about it.
Just go away
"THEY" do not attack new people. I am new, and I have never been attacked. "THEY" may however call out people who are BSC and causing drama.
You have to be a little smarter than to think every new person gets flamed on their posts, if that were true the message boards would never get new members and it would die out. Get real, lady.
I'm currently at work and bumping istead... I literally just laughed out loud.
Wow, I see what you mean. I was replying to another post last night where I was so surprised because I thought some people were being a bit harsh. I've been lurking and posting on here for awhile now and I always liked these message boards because sometimes it is nice to know that other people are going through the same thing or that something is normal, or even just to come on and give some sympathy to someone else's problems. But the harshness I saw on the other post was nothing compared to what people posted to you.
I don't know you. For all I know what people say is true, but I don't think it is. I don't understand why someone would lie about something like that. I think it is really sad that people want to believe the worst of people.
I am so sorry about your DH! That is horrible! I cannot imagine being in that kind of situation! I hope that you get yourself out of it though because if he is like this now, how unhappy or trapped are you going to be/feel like in 10 years from now?
Also, I'd like to point out (not because I don't think that you see it or that it isn't absolutely horrible how people attacked you last night or today, but because there are a lot of good people out there who want to see the good in people too) that the majority of the replies last night were sympathetic to you and not the horrible ones that came later. Good luck! I really hope things work out for you!
We don't know either, yet she does make that stuff up.
People were only harsh because this is her second attempt at making an Alter Ego to hide the drama queen she really is. With the last, she swore up and down that we were all harsh and being mean and claimed the "I'm new I have no idea what you're talking about" routine (her AEs even spoke to each other in one post) and then LO AND BEHOLD, she came out saying who she really was. If she wants solid advice, she needs to be real, honest, and not psycho with us.?
I'm new here, and no one has even remotely come close to 'attacking' me...
I also lurked for a month or so before I joined to get a feel for the board...perhaps you should have done this as well...or go back to lurking for a while...if you did, you would already know who Diane is...and why she touches a nerve with some people.