We decided that I would tell my boss about our adoption plans as soon as our HS was officially done. It just came in the mail today. In the meantime, we should have all of our profile stuff done by the end of next week, expecting to go active mid November.
Any advice on what to say/not to say when I tell him? I want to make it clear to him that going active doesn't = "I'm leaving tomorrow", but that plans need to be made. I do not plan on returning after the baby comes.
Re: Telling my boss tomorrow--advice?
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I don't consider this early at all. I want to give him some sort of heads up since a match could potentially come quickly (though I am aware that it could take several months).
I don't plan on telling him I'm not coming back. Heck, if we get a placement in my state, the timeframe for the birthmom to change her mind is a few weeks, so there's always the possibility we could get a placement and have it fall through.
Keep that advice coming!
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Am i too late?
I think it's important to have an action plan set in place...so "when" I get the call this is what needs to happen for ME and this is what needs to happen for the company/agency. I think it's important to work together in order to make that happen.
I know when a friend of mine was going through adoption her boss had a red folder that had "Emergency! Jessica's picking up her baby!" that was to be updated each week so that whoever took over her position had the emergency directions to at least get them started.
Hope it goes well for you!
I don't have any advice but I wanted to say congrats on the completion of your home study and good luck with everything.
I hope today goes smoothly for you.