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Keep it Coming...

schen0510schen0510
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although I am not sure how much more I can take.  On my way home from work I was in a car accident.  Wonderful.  Some guy slid on the wet road and hit me from behind.  I am fine and so is he but SERIOUSLY...one more thing I need to deal with.  I literally just had the title to my car put in my name after paying it off yesterday!  Now before I can trade it in or sell it I need to have the car fixed.  He is completely 100% responsible (so says that cop...and I agree) but he was hoping to just exchange information and not call the cops.  Luckily one showed up right behind us and called it in.  I had this strange feeling that he was not going to pay and then he kept repeating that he would not be able to afford his insurance.  I do feel badly for him but maybe he should have been driving slower and at a safer distance considering the poor weather conditions here.

Why can't things just be easy?  Am I ever going to get a break?  I feel like it is getting harder and harder to make it through the day without feeling completely overwhelmed and exhausted.  Words I try to live by...what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...although I think I should be able to lift my house up over my head by now!

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  • horae4mehorae4me member

    Oh no!  what an awful thing to happen without everything else you have going on.  I feel the same way, though.  Why does it all have to come crashing down at once?  Just when you think you can't hold it together, one more thing happens.  i know i am surprising myself by handling all that has been happening so well and managing to hold things together at work (i teach and my patience is tested every day).  I think you will surprise yourself when you come out of all of this, look back, and think "i made it". I sure hope things turn around for you.  It's so awful to experience a loss and it just magnifies everything else!  It does seem to put things in perspective. 

     

    i'm sending some positive thoughts your way!  i hope things settle down a bit for you!  in the meantime, come here and vent!  vent away!  it's the best outlet i have found :)

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  • StaribethStaribeth
    That just stinks! However, the important thing is that you are ok! I actually had car drama last week myself. On the day I decided I would finally go out of the house, the back drivers side window shattered- I have no back window in all this rain we've had and my car is soaked. It really does feel like one thing after another right now- but you WILL get through this. Thinking good thoughts for you...
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  • PixiestxPixiestx
    I'm glad to hear you're ok.  I saw a really bad accident on my way home from work and it freaked me out how just a little bit of carelessness could cause such awful results.  I'm sorry that with all the things out of your control you had this jerk pile something totally preventable on you too. 
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  • candyliescandylies
    I am glad you weren't hurt. What an annoying thing to have deal with right now on top of everything else. Don't let that guy make you feel sorry for him. He should have been more careful! I hope no other drama ends up on your plate.
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  • vkbaby09vkbaby09

    I'm so sorry you got hit today - that super sucks!  I'm really glad that no one was hurt.  I know how you feel about catching a break.  I hope things start turning out better for you and all of us soon.  I love this:

    "Words I try to live by...what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...although I think I should be able to lift my house up over my head by now!"

    LOL Big SmileYes

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