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Ahhh...WTF!!!!!!!!!!!! (Chart related)

jrodsgal06jrodsgal06
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WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?  I had more wild rumpus time with DH this month than ever before and it looks like it still wasn't good enough!  Temps are starting to creep back down and I've been very crampy and icky the past two days, so I know Mrs. Beastly is about to make an apperance.   I know it isn't over till she shows, but I'm still so frustrated at what looks like is the writing on my empty uterine wall!!!!!  It shouldn't be this hard....for any of us....There are so many trolls out there who have babies and don't want them, or parents who neglect their kids.....All I want is a baby....I don't want a fancy house, I don't want to win the lotto, I don't want to be married to Brad Pitt....ALL I WANT IS A KID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Sorry I just needed to vent....

The only bright side is that this is my second month charting and it does look as if I am ovulating (which I doubted for some time), but my LP looks kinda short...so at least I am learning about my body and what to look for, etc. 

 Sorry if I brought anybody down with my post.....hope all of your days are better than mine.  Much love for you gals!!!

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Re: Ahhh...WTF!!!!!!!!!!!! (Chart related)

  • priya&peterpriya&peter member

    amen sister.  i mean why should getting knocked up be so hard for us.  millions of tramps do it all the time without even meaning to!  Boo for falling temps but i'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

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  • kshields104kshields104
    I here all your venting!  Life is not fair, I hate going out and seeing 16 yr olds having babies and we can provide good homes and tons of love and we can't have one.  It took DH and I 11 months to get preggers and then it ended in miscarriage.  I hope to God it does not take that long this time around!  I just wish we could all have happy and healthy pregnancies!  That is also why I hate watching the TLC show I didn't know I was pregnant.  I mean I've been taken prenatal vitamins and eating healthy when I was ttc, so it is so unfair that people who don't even take care of their bodies can go on to have healthy babies.  I just needed to add to your venting! 
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  • EMSmommy2bEMSmommy2b
    I hear you on the venting and where else can you do it and not be judged?  My LP was kinda short so talked to a herbalist and she suggested "Vitex and Evening Primrose Oil" they seem to help I got KU after the first month of being on them unfortunately mc after 14 weeks.  Just thought I'd share and hopefully they may help you or someone else.
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    I completely understand. Last cycle we BD our damn brains out and pffft, nada. the only thing I got was a 9 day LP!

    As for your LP, as long as it's 10 days or more, than you're ok. I know a lot of people think 10 days is deficient, but it's really not. It's on the short side for sure, but my BFF had an 8 day LP took 50mg of B6 and had a 10 LP and got ku with her son.

     

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  • jrodsgal06jrodsgal06
    imageShellShockedMama:

    I completely understand. Last cycle we BD our damn brains out and pffft, nada. the only thing I got was a 9 day LP!

    As for your LP, as long as it's 10 days or more, than you're ok. I know a lot of people think 10 days is deficient, but it's really not. It's on the short side for sure, but my BFF had an 8 day LP took 50mg of B6 and had a 10 LP and got ku with her son.

     

    Thanks, Chica....I started taking B6 last cycle, so hopefully it's helping....I'm just not sure if I should be taking B6, or  "B complex"???

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    imagejrodsgal06:
    imageShellShockedMama:

    I completely understand. Last cycle we BD our damn brains out and pffft, nada. the only thing I got was a 9 day LP!

    As for your LP, as long as it's 10 days or more, than you're ok. I know a lot of people think 10 days is deficient, but it's really not. It's on the short side for sure, but my BFF had an 8 day LP took 50mg of B6 and had a 10 LP and got ku with her son.

     

    Thanks, Chica....I started taking B6 last cycle, so hopefully it's helping....I'm just not sure if I should be taking B6, or  "B complex"???

    Well, my doctor said that unless you're a vegetarian you get enough B12, I don't know what other B's are in a B complex but my friend was just told to take B6 and so was I. It hasn't helped yet, but I'm hoping it'll get better cycle by cycle.

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