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FB drama, NBR **vent**

So, get this... DH's brother's wife's mom ( or my BIL's MIL..almost no relation to me) Requested Dh and I on FB a few months ago. Since we have met her once and didnt care for her, we denied her request. She sent about 2 or 3 more, Dh denied all of them. I gave in and confirmed it, but made her access limited..I thought. She started commenting on all of LOs pics "oh I wish I could cuddle her.. I want to frame her picture!". This displeased me. She is almost a stranger to me, therefore has not right to touch/cuddle/frame pictures/ be in the same room as my DD.

So I mde my profile even more private, only to have her post on my wall "You guys are so cute! How is the baby? N & J (BIl and SIL) said she is so cute!"..so I took the step today and made up an excuse to "clean up my friends list" and delete people I dont talk to anymore, and canned her. This was 6 hours ago. 3 hours later the woman sent ANOTHER friend request saying "I saw we were no longer friends, so I thought I would add you again!"..in the meantime, sending DH another friend request "you and your daughter are so cute, how is she?"...Seriously between me and DH, thats like 8 denied friend requests, and she still doesnt get the picture.

I think she is facebook stalking us. We decided she is like that move the hand that rocks the cradel, and secretly wants to breastfeed LO..**shudder**

 

Re: FB drama, NBR **vent**

  • that is creepy!!!
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  • Uh, why don't you just block her and then tell her you cancelled your FB account if she asks. Odds are she won't.
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  • so i read the secretly wanting to breastfeed LO & pictured old saggy boobs. LOL, thanks for the visual....
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  • imagecstw:
    Uh, why don't you just block her and then tell her you cancelled your FB account if she asks. Odds are she won't.

    Her daughter and Dhs brother are on my list and are apparently joined at this womans hip. So they would tell her if I didnt. I dont mind DH's brother, but he would let the cat out of the bag. Its a vicious circle.

  • Thanks for the update

    Im still glad I made the cut, though Wink

  • imagelizrenee06:
    so i read the secretly wanting to breastfeed LO & pictured old saggy boobs. LOL, thanks for the visual....

     

    This gave me the visual...lol. Anyway...sounds like you've got a weirdo on your hands. She can probably still see pictures though if you have mutual friends who are commenting on LO's pictures...just a thought! Good luck

  • imageSoonToBeTabor:

    Thanks for the update

    Im still glad I made the cut, though Wink

    LOL, None of my bump friends got canned! Ive never met any of you before, but I would sooner trust you guys with DD than this psycho b****. That would be so ugly of me to add all of you, then delete you.

    Dh brought to my attention that everyone can see what I type on other peoples walls, so this womans daughter saw that I said "im doing this to get rid of one person in particular" LOL

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  • You can block her and so she can never again request you as a friend because she won't be able to find you!!!
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    imagelizrenee06:
    so i read the secretly wanting to breastfeed LO & pictured old saggy boobs. LOL, thanks for the visual....

     

    This gave me the visual...lol. Anyway...sounds like you've got a weirdo on your hands. She can probably still see pictures though if you have mutual friends who are commenting on LO's pictures...just a thought! Good luck

    You can change your settings to only show your pictures to your friends, and not friends of friends.

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  • Don't confirm or deny her requests....that way it just sits in limbo. She just sees it as "pending" or whatever and can't continue to request you, but doesn't see your stuff.
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