Babies: 3 - 6 Months

Did you cry when your LO was born?

i am watching a baby story and the woman is sobbing-  which I always thought I would, but I didn't.

 

I cried later, as DH and I stared at him, but in the moment there were not tears of joy, just huge, silly, dopey, overwhelming smiles and disbelief

EDD with #4  01-20-14
Proud mama to a boys-  6/17/09 - a girl 2/23/11- and a boy 8/20/12

Re: Did you cry when your LO was born?

  • No, I was just trying to breathe, and then felt relieved when I heard her cry. I had a room full of med students, doctors, etc. so I think I was just trying to recover from all of that.
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  • i did not cry with my first but cried with my second (no drugs with the first)
  • Dh had a few tears, but I didn't cry.

    I was suprised I wasn't a horrible mess.

    However, at 5 days pp I cried for 3 hours because I didn't want dd to grow up. Lol.

  • I didn't cry in the moment. I was so overwhelmed when they handed DD to me. I was trying to wrap my head around it. I laugh at the pic right after they handed her to me, I look like a deer in headlights!
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  • I cried a few hours after she was born.  It was very peaceful and quiet when she was actually born and I did not cry.  Then things got a little BSC.  Then when things calmed down and I could really enjoy her w/no one else but DH around, I bawled and bawled and bawled. 

    And bawled.

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  • I had a c/s, and I cried when I heard her first cry. I barely had any tears though, which was weird.
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  • Nope.  I was so doped up on pain meds (c/s), and so worn out for laboring for the last 28 hours that I was literally falling asleep.  I felt like I could finally rest once I saw him and heard his cry.  I knew it was over (labor & delivery that is), and I could sleep.  I didn't even hold him until a couple hours later, once we were in our room (after laying in recovery for 2 hours).   
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  • I didn't sob, but when I first heard DS cry, I cried. So did DH.
  • FI and I both had tears in our eyes... but no real crying.  I too always thought I would sob but didn't.
  • I teared up but mainly I had a dear in the head lights look. My mouth literally hung open as I looked at that wet, gooey baby on my chest. Thinking about it makes me teary.
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  • I cannot.remember. Holy crap. I'm almost positive I did immediately because I was so relieved labor was over and she was ok. Plus, I was really messed up because giving birth is way more dramatic than I was expecting. I really wasn't prepared as much as I thought I was.

    DH was crying a lot though. But mostly because he was happy I was ok. And I have this weird quirk that causes me to cry if I see someone in person crying.

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  • After DH announced "It's A Girl" and I said "You're sh*tting me", yes, I cried.  We both did.
  • Nope.  I was so freakin exhuasted because I hadn't eaten anything that entire day.  I just felt relived from all that pressure!  I was in a total daze, plus they took her after just a few minutes to the special care nursery due to some breathing problems.  She came 2 1/2 weeks early.  When I went in there to visit her I cried.
  • Yes!!!
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  • No. Baby blues hit me from the moment she was born and I was in a complete fog for about 3 weeks. That's why I wish I would have told FI to take more photos and more video. I cherish the video we do have and when the fog lifted I watched them all and cried happy tears.
  • Yes.  I cried when I heard DS cry for the first time and then when the nurses brought him over to me so I could see him. 
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  • I had a c/s and sobbed the minute I heard him cry. My H was holding him after he was checked out and the sight of it was overwhelming. The doctor actually asked if I was okay- umm yeah, happiest momnet ever, I am more than okay. I might cry right now thinking about it.
  • I sobbed like a crazy woman. My family & friends could even heard me down the hall in the waiting room haha.
  • I did cry when they put her on my chest
  • After he came out, they showed him to me for about two seconds before I had to be sedated due to complications. Sucked big time. 

    About three hours later, I finally got to meet him and then I cried uncontrollably. I think partly because I was happy I was alive and partly because of him :) 

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  • I was totally drugged up with Benydryl and it didn't hit me until later that I finally had a daughter, than I cried.
  • Yes, DH and I both cried.

  • No. I was too damn out of it and feeling sick and cold (c-section) to even appreciate when DH held him up to me. I didn't even really get to look at him until hours later, when I finally woke up for more than a few minutes.?
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    Dh had a few tears, but I didn't cry.

    I was suprised I wasn't a horrible mess.

    However, at 5 days pp I cried for 3 hours because I didn't want dd to grow up. Lol.

    OMG this was so me! I was really shocked I wasn't a blubbering mess after delivery but man two days later I sobbed for hours because I knew he would never be that small again.

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  • We both sobbed, which is a little surprising because I am not a crier - didn't cry when I got engaged, or at my wedding, or even when I found out I was pregnant.  I think the phyical relief contributed but I just couldn't control it.

    ETA:  Now when I watch A Baby Story, I get teary when the baby is born.  Every. Time.  Never used to happen.  I remember C's first moment so vividly it's like reliving it in an odd way.

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