Other than word-of-mouth. My shift is so crappy (1:30-10) I'm not sure if it will be easy. Not to mention I'm so skeptical of people and have never left A with anyone other than family. But I really don't feel like I can count on my mom 100% anymore. I guess even if I can find someone to watch her for even half the day that would work. Is Craigslist too sketchy? I've been meaning to check the local colleges.
Re: Best way to find a babysitter
If I knew, I would maybe leave the house once in awhile without the children...(my fam is 1300 miles away, my husband's is 6 hours away, and my little brother, who followed me out here, doesn't do diapers...I hate imposing on my friends-especially since most of them aren't parents and actually have lives-although a couple of them offer sometimes.)
I can count the number of times we have been away from my kids on like...one hand.
I think that is why I go to the gym so much...
I hope someone has some good answers in this post.
IF you use craigslist, you can probably be really thorough about reference checks, I suppose- or doesn't the Red Cross give referrals?
Good luck!
Hmmm. I don't know about the RC. I'll ask my friend who works for them. I hear ya. I really need to start getting out in addition to needing someone to watch her while I work. I need a BREAK.
I sent my friend a text and told her I would pay her to be my nanny if she would move here and live with me. HA! She'd prob. never talk to me again after a few hours with Amarah.
I would look up at the local college and see what's around. When I was in college, there were a bunch of gals who babysat in the evening. They put up fliers in education buildings.
I don't know- free room and board plus a salary? someone would go for that.maybe can you co-op with someone else's nanny? like the kids altogether? maybe post on craigslist looking for someone to do that with- I think I would be more comfortable with that than just my kid alone with someone new.
of course, I babysat as a kid, and I can safely say I was a more attentive and anal babysitter than I am a mother- so there are good sitters out there. I was just so determined to do everything perfectly, and be a super sitter...
I got passed around by some parents who recc'd me, (like a babysitting HOOR!!) and they didn't act like it was anything- though it was also not like a full time situation.
you'll find something good. and then get you some boo-tay, girl!
Mad at that! This shop is closed.

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