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Trying to think happy thoughts...

symonatbsymonatb member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

I am sitting here, not able to sleep (since I slept the whole day away today).  I'm trying to think positively about the next few months. DH and I can't start TTC until I get my whole fibroid situation figured out. So we have at east 7 months or more to wait. I'm going to have to undergo surgery or something; I want to take the fibroid out of the equation for next time. 

Anywho, I'm trying to think about the positives in this situation. Here's my list

1. I can get into better shape for the next baby. I had some marriage weight that I need to shed, and I can work on that.

2. We can put some money away and start saving for furniture, clothes, etc.

3. I can start applying for jobs again and get out of this boring job I'm at. I was holding off due to being preggo.

 

Ok... that's all I can think of now... Do you have any "positives" about your current situation?

BFP #1 on 8/19/09 M/C 10/14/09
BFP #2 01/10/10 M/C 01/31/10
BFP #3 12/24/10 M/C 01/20/11
BFP#4 07/18/11 EDD: 03/24/12
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Re: Trying to think happy thoughts...

  • piedpiper07piedpiper07 member

    we can buy a house first.

    I can go to graduate school

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  • alovelyladyalovelylady
    I am sitting here in the hospital bed, after having my D&C, looking at my wonderful DH sleeping by my side on the couch, thinking about my 2 beautiful girls at home, and I know that God is in control, He has given me such a peace that passes all understanding, I was not nervous at all coming into the surgery, emotional "yes", but nervous "not at all", how can I complain, I am blessed beyond measure and I woke up this morning with breath in lungs and the sun in my eyes.
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  • candyliescandylies

    I am so sorry you have to wait so long to try again. {{{HUGS}}} I do not have to wait as long, just a few months but I am looking at it as a good time to lose that weight I gain after I got laid off. Also I am more positive about finding a new job since I do not have to worry now about telling a future employer about being pregnant. Also got my first sewing machine so looking forward to getting some practice in before I start working on baby things when I hopefully get pregnant again. Focusing on saving more money is a good thing too.

    And I really like what alovelylady had to say and I am thankful to have such a caring DH and stable home and financial situation.

    Started TTC - 01/2009 1st BFP - 09/04/09,1st u/s - 10/06/09- no heartbeat seen, D&E - 10/13/09 BFP #2 - 2/12/10, m/c 2/17/10 BFP #3 - 01/03/11 m/c 01/10/11 BFP #4 - 02/21/11 DS born 10/13/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • marisslynmarisslyn

    I have been thinking about getting into shape, I am going to buy a car, got a new blackberry yesterday. Said I am going to save money every month, so when we do have a baby I can take a year off. I also have to wait 6months to a year to TTC because of my partial molar pregnancy. But I think I need the time emotionally anyways.

    Baby boy, you are forever loved and missed. 19 weeks 2 days 10/14/09 Partial Molar Pregnancy Lucas Glenn 12/18/10
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