Checking in: How is everyone doing?

roxyttandme · October 2009

I haven't been on this board much recently. I thought I would just check in w/ everyone and see how you ladies are holding up?

(((hugs)))

Amanda78 · October 2009

I am a hot mess. Going home to DH and the dog and a GIANT dirty martini.

Hope everyone else is better than me! Hugs!

Mizz&Shizz · October 2009

Hi Roxy!

Doing ok...started counseling today. I like the lady, she is nice, I'm seeing her again next week. Its nice to have someone completely removed from the situation that I can just completely unload on. Did you start counseling yet? I remembered you posted about it a while ago.

roxyttandme · October 2009

Mizz&Shizz:

Hi Roxy!

Doing ok...started counseling today. I like the lady, she is nice, I'm seeing her again next week. Its nice to have someone completely removed from the situation that I can just completely unload on. Did you start counseling yet? I remembered you posted about it a while ago.

Hi! I haven't started yet. My first appt is on 11/4. I am a bit nervous about it tell you the truth. I spoke w/ the lady on the phone briefly and she didn't seem the warmest of people. In the mean time, I am staying on the Zoloft and just doing what I have to get through each day. Sometime, you have to take it one day at a time, somedays it is one hour at a time.

I am still waiting to get the pics in the mail of Haleigh's legs. I am really scared for their arrival. I know I will look at them.. and I know it will make me really upset.... but, I just have to have ever single pic of her with me. Everyday around 3pm ... (when the mailman arrives) I get butterflies in my stomach...

I am glad to hear that your counseling is going well. I hope you continue to find healing...

(((hugs)))

Mizz&Shizz · October 2009

roxyttandme:

Mizz&Shizz:

Hi Roxy!

Doing ok...started counseling today. I like the lady, she is nice, I'm seeing her again next week. Its nice to have someone completely removed from the situation that I can just completely unload on. Did you start counseling yet? I remembered you posted about it a while ago.

Hi! I haven't started yet. My first appt is on 11/4. I am a bit nervous about it tell you the truth. I spoke w/ the lady on the phone briefly and she didn't seem the warmest of people. In the mean time, I am staying on the Zoloft and just doing what I have to get through each day. Sometime, you have to take it one day at a time, somedays it is one hour at a time.

I am still waiting to get the pics in the mail of Haleigh's legs. I am really scared for their arrival. I know I will look at them.. and I know it will make me really upset.... but, I just have to have ever single pic of her with me. Everyday around 3pm ... (when the mailman arrives) I get butterflies in my stomach...

I am glad to hear that your counseling is going well. I hope you continue to find healing...

(((hugs)))

Thanks Roxy Smile

I've been through therapy before, twice. The first time I didn't like the person and it made the visits really awkward and looking back, it didn't help me at all. If you meet this person and you don't "click" with them, you should not feel bad about finding someone else. The thing about therapists is that they truly believe that you have to "fit" with your client, otherwise they know that the therapy isn't going to be effective. If you don't like this person when you meet her, I wouldn't hesistate to call it off and find someone else, they will be completely understanding, I can assure you of that.

I hope you get the pics soon, I'm sure it will be hard looking at them, but maybe it will be that last little bit that is missing and it can help you to heal. Smile

sunsetlove · October 2009

Had my f/up app this past wed.. it went well.. ob gave me referrals for a specialist... it was so sad looking at the u/s and seeing my empty uterus.. my dh held my hand and told me we are in this together.. we are hoping the specialists will help us.. very excited about our anniversary trip next week.. can't wait..

roxyttandme · October 2009

sunsetlove:
Had my f/up app this past wed.. it went well.. ob gave me referrals for a specialist... it was so sad looking at the u/s and seeing my empty uterus.. my dh held my hand and told me we are in this together.. we are hoping the specialists will help us.. very excited about our anniversary trip next week.. can't wait..

I hope you have a great time w/ tons of R & R...

sunsetlove · October 2009

thanks roxy.. it's our 3rd anniversary..i still gotta wrap my dh gift..btw: glad your counseling appointment went well... it's good to talk to someone and let your feelings out.. take care..

LLRT · October 2009

I am doing okay. Still can't get things off my mind and I am counting down to the day that I hopefully ovulate based on this last cycle. I am so ready to get pregnant again so that I can feel that feeling once again. Right now officially sucks.

MaryEllen · October 2009

Hi Roxy - how are you? I think about you often.

I'm doing ok - I think Oct 15 helped, and I got some nice feedback on FB. I have cramps and my temp is dropping so I think AF is on her way, thank GOD. Tomorrow is 5 weeks since the D&E so I will happily welcome AF. I'm ready to try again, but I'm not sure DH is. We haven't had sex since the beginning of August, before we knew we were pregnant. I think that is how DH is showing his sadness over everything.

I got a lot of aggression out tonight in a bar fight at the bar we go to every Friday - this a-hole who I just hate (and I don't hate people, I'm really a nice person) ticked me off and we got into it. I was almost wishing it would go further so I could get more out, but it ended with just a yelling match over baseball. OH well. I

firefightersgal · October 2009

I go back and forth between being pretty strong and being a mess. Most of today, I was doing pretty well. Then it just it me, and I started bawling after hearing, "I'm Already Gone" by Kelly Clarkson on the radio. ("I want you to know that it doesn't matter when we take this road, someone's gotta go. I want you to know, you could not love me better. I want you to move on, so I'm already gone.") It made me think of my baby and how s/he had been gone for 5 days before we found out.

Ugh. This all really sucks, doesn't it.

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