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Photogirl922
I absolutely agree that this is very sad and unfortunate. I just felt the need for truth.... Nothing makes a liar scramble harder to justify themselves than the cold hard truth. Looks like my post was even pulled... thus making it successful 
500 hits it got. I'd say the point has been made. The internet is filled with so many people that just want to be somebody else and have actually found a place to acomplish just that. Living a double life is quite common. I personally think it's way too much work, but hey... what do I know?!? LOL
And yes, I have always dis-associated with people of LuckyAngel's caliber. There is never a need to be that way especially if your own life has purpose and meaning. ***Virtual hug to you as well for sticking up for mom*** I'm sorry that people are giving you hell about defending a friend as well. I find it creepy and caddy that everybody was so quick to put their 2 cents in. Remarkable. People just get sooo obsessed with things.
Nobody's life is perfect no matter what they say, but if you learn and grow every single day, it's a success.
One of my favorite quotes;
"Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent"- Isaac Asimov
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Re: Photogirl922
I'm not sure what's going on here and I've not said anything until now, but I can't take it anymore and want it to stop.
I don't know who you are or who these other people are but whoever is the REAL biological mother, father & step mother, listen up! There are children involved here. Children who deserve the best you have to give and this can't be it. You ALL need to get a grip, grow up and start thinking of these children. I don't care what she said, he said or they said or if anybody's feelings got hurt. The fact is that these children need your time, love, trust and respect and none of you are doing any of it!
You sit here playing these games on this board and doing "experiments", but at what point do you say, "this is unacceptable behavior and I need to put my kids first." The bible say's, when I became a man (or woman), I put away childish things.
It's not easy, but you must put your issues aside and do what's right for these children. That means getting along and giving respect to each other. All the parties involved don't have to like each other or hang out but you must give each other respect. Your children are watching even when you think they aren't. It's our job has parents to teach our children the right way to live and treat each other and so far it looks like you've only taught them to lie, be sneaky, disrespectful and downright childish. I feel so sorry for these kids and pray you all get your acts together soon before they end up on the evening news!
It's funny how you talk to Photogirl as if you don't know her. You send her a message that you fully intend for everyone to read otherwise it would be a PM.
Here's a quote for ya: "Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind"
You're an idiot.
Ditto Drew.
Go away.?
Thanks Saran. You're completely right.
I disagree that none of the people involved are giving the kdis the time, love, trust, and respect they need. As I see it, the only person engaging this is Phoenix99 and her "friend". BF/DH and I have not and do not have much to say in response. Kids are always the primary focus. Childish highschool cheerleader popularity games don't mean anything.
I have seen "caddy" used too many times on these boards and it's irritating.
PSA:
Caddy = container, like the shower caddy I used in the dorms to carry my shampoo.
Catty = snotty, the type of comment that might begin a cat-fight.
Haha, I noticed this too. Thank you for posting a PSA!?
Well I don't know who is who and my head is spinning so just like when the kids are fighting and I address everybody involved, I'm doing the same thing here. I don't know who is to blame but it sounded like everyone needed a little reminder as to what or who's important here.
Just to help sort out who is who:
LuckyAngel = SM who has custody of the kids with DH (their BF)
Phoenix = BM of said kids
Photogirl = BM's "friend"??
Furthermore, if nobody gives a crap, why do you keep reading and posting?
Now, now... don't respond now... that was rhetorical.
Thanks Phoenix for the very nice letter.
I really hope to meet you soon. I'm not sure how to do that.
I love Saran I have to say. She is right in her verse. I love Job 23:10-But he knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold. I really prayed hard about this last night and I know that there are hard times to come. I feel it.
There's no way to convince these woman, but I don't care to. I just needed to defend my friend of 17 years. I've been a member here for 3 years, but usually don't have the time to chat, but I made this a priority.
Is there a private way to message here? This site is so confusing to navigate. I look forward to getting to know you!!!
Gah.
Caddie = person who carries your golf clubs.
You're welcome.
Not as hip as me? Wow. I'm so hip and with it.?
Hahahaha...
Caddy is also correct. Actually, it's the "more" correct spelling in the US (as in it comes first in the dictionary or when written and "caddie" is the alternate in parens or quotes.)
HTH. :-)
Except to say that I totally agree with Saran, and it's sad to see the Bible used as a weapon rather than a Word, and false witness and hypocrisy from the "bearers of witness" on these boards. The God that I worship frowns upon bashing, name-calling, taunts and hate-mongering. He is a loving and tolerant God.
That is all.
Yeah. The battle is Gods, not ours to fight. If she (whoever she is) really feels wronged, and she prayed as she stated, she'd know that this is where faith comes in and you have to put the situation in Gods hands and take your hands off of it. All this back and forth and game playing is not what God expects in this situation. She should spend her time praying for the people involved that they start to focus on the children and start doing what's right for them.