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Kristin125Kristin125
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I had such high hopes that we'd get pg again this month.  Folks kept telling me their stories of getting pg the month after mc and even my doctor said that "fertility brings fertility" and said there was a good chance I'd get pg again soon.  I just hate the build up and let down every month.  It sucks.  And I feel bad, guilty, for being upset that I'm not pg.  I have one amazing little boy and there are people who haven't gotten their one yet.  To top it off everyone I know IRL gets KO just looking at each other and since my mc everyone knows we're trying and I feel like they're always looking at me trying to figure out if I'm pg or not. Ugh, I'm just having  a pity party today...thanks for letting me vent.  
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  • marrieditalianmarrieditalian member
    I understand your vent. I got my first AF after my m/c on 10/1 and I am STILL spotting. It's absolutely rediculous! I had screwed up cycles before my m/c that caused me to psycho-analyze my cycles and now this new twist leaves me very confused. At this rate who knows when/if I will ever O. This whole process is becoming very exhausting and I didn't think it was supposed to be like this. Sorry, your vent turned into my vent but I totally understand where you are coming from. I really don't want Erin to be an only child.
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  • UGAbrideUGAbride

    I'm sorry, I know it's frustrating.  We struggled for 8 months after my miscarriage, and I also felt like everyone was just waiting for me to tell them I was pregnant.  I hope next cycle is your cycle!!

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  • donna&eddonna&ed
    Hugs!
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  • MSquires100MSquires100 member
    Pity pary away!  I'm right there with you.  We MC back in July, and finally 10/6 I think I'm getting back on a regular cycle.  It's so frustrating that MC can get your cycle so out of whack.  Keep your head up!
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  • mrsd0907mrsd0907 member
    You'll get nothing but support and hugs here. It took us 6 months after my m/c to get pregnant again and I felt every little thing that you are feeling, especially about every other person getting KO. It felt just like that and made my heart ache every time. Just keep trying and don't worry about the pity party, you're totally justified so have some wine and invite a friend.
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  • Mrs. atlgatorgirlMrs. atlgatorgirl
    Kristin, I can't begin to imagine what you are going through, but wanted to offer some extra hugs to you.
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  • seasidebride05seasidebride05 member
    I could have written this post word for word!  I was so positive that I was pregnant ths month--I took the test and was shocked when it was negative b/c I had convinced myself I was.  Had a good cry after which helped, but I am still waiting for my period and it sucks b/c I can't believe how much a m/c screwed up my cycles.  Of course, I keep torturing myself by taking tests b/c until I get my period I can't give up that little bit of hope that maybe I am pregnant.  I am going to go broke soon from buying all those tests if my period doesn't hurry up and get here! Smile
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  • julienandyjulienandy
    Kristen, been there.....its rough after a m/c and your feelings are totally valid and "normal".  Hang in there, we are here for you.
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