I wish I could share a letter DH received while we were dating, but it's at home and I can't remember the exact wording.
Basically, a girl that he had never spoken to walked up to him and gave him this letter. It was pretty explicit and had an entire paragraph telling him that all he had to do was do her, and he never even had to talk to her again if he didn't want to. It ended with, "I'm a very shy girl and have never done anything like this before."
OMG, I was crying tears of laughter for ten minutes straight. It was awesome.
Anyways, DH gets propositioned at least a dozen times every year. I don't mind at all because he always tells me about them and they make for hilarious stories. I guess it's due to his job (cruise captain).
Re: Have you or your DH ever been propositioned?
yes, in a woman's locker room at the YMCA, it started with
"you have very nice breasts"
nooooooooooooooo thankkkkkkkkkkkkkks
Sorry if I creeped you out. I was telling the truth though. They are so nice.
oh and one time when i worked at a front desk at a hotel in college, an older guy who was checking in for homecoming weekend, gave me his room key and said that i was "welcome anytime"
lol - 2 days ago while shopping.
Him: "So what are you doing after this?"
Me: "Going home to take care of my baby."
Him: "I love kids."
Me: "Eyeroll."
lolol
my angel babies: 6/10 (chem. pg), 9/10 @ 10 weeks
It happens pretty frequently when/if we go out.
The most memorable time happened to DH. We went out to a gay bar with one of DH's best friends for his b-day. A very muscular, attractive German man approached DH and tried his hardest to convert him. At one point, he asked me if he could lick my DH. Then, he put an arm around each of us, but basically choked me in order to stroke DH's arm. I was in tears. It was so funny. DH is pretty quiet, so he was a little embarrassed, but he was a good sport about it.
Before we were married yes. DH was friends with some girl in hs and she didn't like that we were together lol. She tried to jump his bones infront of me then stalked us lol. Another girl he worked with would send him dirty text messages all the time so he had to go and change his number, she then used their work files to look up our address and come to our house. He turned her in and she was fired soon after lol.
I had a few guys, and one girl lol, randomly ask me if I wanted to 'bang it out' out back when we were at parties.
Braydon 1.23.09
Your DH is like the freakin' Pied Piper of the singles scene!!!
Your reaction almost makes you a little sad for the girl who wrote that letter. Did she know he was married at the time? If so then she deserved what she got!
ETA: Sad for her b/c the whole thing is vaguely pathetic.
Geez! Some people are completely nuts!
We were at a party and girl I knew from HS (who was very drunk) literally hopped on DH and told him they make cute babies.
I was standing right there and kicked her in the ass. We joke about it all the time.
We weren't married yet, but I'm sure she had no idea. They were pretty much complete strangers. She had a class with him, but it had only met three times so far.
She ran up to him at the bus stop a few days later and asked for an answer. He looked her up and down and said, "no." DH can be pretty rude. The poor girl was pretty devastated. Also, how awkward to have to be in the same class for the rest of the semester.
In my younger days I was propositioned quite a bit. Then when we moved to FL (Ft. Lauderdale) I was propositioned a LOT (what can I say, Latin men love me). Not so much since preg. However, yesterday I was asked, by a kid in one of my classes, if I'd "walk him home" and he winked. We had been laughing at a poem about a guy making dinner for his lover, giving her a drink, asking her to take her clothes off, and then some implications. I'd jokingly mentioned that the author was combining all of my favorite things. I think that's why he asked me.
DH used to a lot, just because the stupid little sluuts that come in to get tattoos from him think it'd be cool to sex a tattoo artist. But that's died down quite a bit.
DH never notices if a girl checks him out or anything. I think he had some pretty low self esteem before we met and he figured girls never found him attractive. I think he is incredibly handsome though.
I got hit on when I was four months pregnant by a guy who was on a date with another girl. Ew.