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I am an idiot......

LCB34LCB34 member
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So, all along, I have been thinking that if IVF #2 works I would be due in late September.  I swear I looked this up and used the IVF due date calculator and everything.

Well, I just did it again for fun....and if my ER is Dec 7 - what we are predicting - I will be due August 30, 2010.  That is an entire month earlier that I was expecting.

Now I am worried about the wedding I am in on May 21 in the Virgin Islands b/c I will two weeks away from the 3rd tri.

Also, I am seriously insane to start planning/ worrying about things like this b/c the chance of this working isn't that great......

 

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  • shipoopiisformeshipoopiisforme

    why so negative nancy!!!! this will work for you, i refuse to recognize any other possibility.

    and i wouldn't worry about the wedding yet. your friend will understand if that is the case.

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  • samk213samk213 member
    I think it's great you are thinking and planning ahead, that means you have hope and that is important!  I really think this will be it for you, being PG in the Texas is soooo not going to be fun though!
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  • negrilbride07negrilbride07

    I don't think you're insane at all!  If you are standing up in a wedding requiring air travel it is best to consider all scenarios.  What if you have to bow out due to bedrest, delivery dates- which could potenitally be sooner if you conceive twins!

    Besides, optimistic planning rubs off into real life!

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  • alicbalicb member
    Don't be a Debbie Downer it will work this time!  Think positive!
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    Aww..that's my birthday! :)  Sounds like a great date to me!!  I am a planner by nature..and i would also start trying to figure out what to do about the events in the hopes that I am pregnant. 
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  • mrshoppy_1231mrshoppy_1231
    I am the same way! I'm a planner and I can't help it! I am in a wedding in Mexico in April and if our first IUI works this month I WILL be in the 3rd trimester by then! I have a friend that is travelling to Mexico in her 6th month so I am thinking I'd just see how I feel... and we did buy travel insurance!! So I am right there with you!
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  • BenandDinaBenandDina
    Don't get so down on yourself; let's live one day at a time.  When the time will come, your friend will understand, and you'll have a wonderful, healthy baby.
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