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why did i do it?

pbhennessypbhennessy member
in TTC After a Loss

One of my good friends is PG, and eight weeks ahead of what I would have been.  Her BFF (who I also know) is due a week after my friend.  Anyway, the BFF came from out of town this weekend and they wanted me to meet up with them.  Conveniently I was working all weekend... because really, I really didn't feel like being the non-PG third wheel on the happy pregnancy train.  I know, I sound really bitter.

Anyway, I knew there would be tons of belly pics posted on FB of the two of them from this weekend, and sure enough, I was right.  Why, why, WHY did I torture myself and go look at them?  Now I am so sad =(  

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  • hbkiseshbkises member
    I probably would have done the same thing...I'm so sorry hun
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  • superlupersuperluper

    I'm so sorry. I do it too. One friend has a pg blog and I go and look at it regularly and DH always gripes at me for it because he doesn't understand why I look at it even though it makes me upset. 

    I know it seems stupid but I think we still want to see how others are doing.  

    oh please. not KU. effed up.
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm sorry - I find myself avoiding pg friends right now too.  I just don't want to hear about their happiness and have them tell me "relax, it will happen, blah blah, blah".
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  • megjr8megjr8 member
    I would've done the same thing. ::hugs::
    In memory of precious Julia, sweet baby James, and now Timmy who fought so hard.


    Natural miscarriage - April 2009 ~ We love you, 'Blueberry'
    Lydia, born July 12, 2010
    Labor buddy to Kelly0615
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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie
    It's sick - but we all do it.   (((hugs)))
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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member

    Ugh... if it makes you feel any better I am totally jealous of them too and I don't even know them.

    BFP #1 4/2/09 EDD 12/6/09 -MC 4/12/09 BFP #2 6/2/09 EDD 2/14/10 -Ectopic in Tube, Surgery 6/23/09 BFP #3 10/15/09 EDD 6/27/10 -Daniel John 6/21/10 BFP #4 Oct 2010 Chemical Pregnancy BFP #5 8/19/11 Beta #1 82.8 Prog 17.25
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  • pbhennessypbhennessy member

    Aw, thanks girls *hugs to all*.

    I knew if there was anywhere I could get understanding about my craziness, it would be here =) 

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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    Yup, we certainly do torture ourselves don't we, shame on you.  I'm so sorry, that really sucks. 
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • carynmpcarynmp member
    sorry!  I am on facebook strike.  It is easier to just not go on then to see pictures that make me upset every day. 
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