only one with a baby...

vegasgirl07 · October 2009

are you the only one of your girls that has a baby? if so,how often do they visit or come around? I feel like they've all abandoned me!

BugLuv · October 2009

I have lost a good majority of my single friends. I still have some married friends, but mostly had to meet new mommy friends. It sucks, but it is what it is.

elspethcordelia · October 2009

They came to see me more when she was little. But, most of my friends are teachers and are busier now. I don't go and spend time with them as much either.

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haleyw458 · October 2009

Only 2 of my friends have babies, and they both just turned 2 years old. We've become closer because we have something huge in common, and we don't hang out with the rest of our friends much. They're all still at that partying stage.

qbnbride · October 2009

I am the only one with a baby and married. They all have continued on in their single lives and do not call anymore. It started when I was pg and couldn't go out drinking anymore. It's hard and it's lonely, but it is what it is and now Im forced to find mommy friends. I was really upset about it for awhile, but on the very few occassions I have seen my old friends, I've realized that I don't really have anything in common with them anymore.

BitterOldHag · October 2009

A bunch of us have had babies this summer. But instead of getting together more, we never see each other because we are all so busy.

Corinneallyson · October 2009

qbnbride:
I am the only one with a baby and married. They all have continued on in their single lives and do not call anymore. It started when I was pg and couldn't go out drinking anymore. It's hard and it's lonely, but it is what it is and now Im forced to find mommy friends. I was really upset about it for awhile, but on the very few occassions I have seen my old friends, I've realized that I don't really have anything in common with them anymore.

this. it sucks.

NY-allie · October 2009

I have the opposite problem. I'm the only one of my girlfriends with a baby and they all want one. They come over every chance they get and complain when they don't get to hold DS all the time. Now that I'm working I want to be the one to hold DS.

grinsandgiggles · October 2009

I've lost a lot of friends, include my "best friend." It makes me sad, but I guess we just don't have anything in common anymore. I also think it makes some of them jealous because they can't seem to get their lives figured out/meet the right guy/have kids.

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