I have been BF for 5 weeks and I cant handl the extra stress it causes. My fiance wants me to switch because he says I'm too stressed out and he wants me to enjoy the baby. I want to enjoy him too but I feel stuck at home and being that I'm only 22 I want to go out with my friends but I have to pump for atleast 2 days in advance to get enough to go out for a few hours. there are so many more reasons I want to switch but the biggest one is that sometimes I cant produce any milk and me and the baby both end up crying because I feel like I'm being a bad mom when I cant feed him.
Sorry to go on and on but my question is: what is the best way to go about switching? should I BF then formula and back and forth or what? Im so lost!
Re: Switching from BF to formula
When I switched, I just went right to formula. DS didn't even seem to notice.
GL! Oh and you are NOT a bad mom. I didn't realize how stressed out I was until I didn't have to BF anymore. It really improved my relationship with my LO.
I just switched cold turkey. Beware that the poops and gas might be different for a week or so, it's just LO's tummy adjusting.
Also, don't feel bad, Happy Mommy = Happy Baby! Good luck!
Do it gradually, but as pp said your baby will still react to it. My LO got pretty constipated and had really bad gas. He was in a lot of pain.
You sound just like me when I was in that situation. I hated breastfeeding and was very stressed out from my new job, had just moved, and the new baby. I am much less stressed out and enjoy my baby much more, but I do regret it also. I still feel very guilty about not pumping anymore.
Think very carefully before you completely make your decision.
HTH and GL