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anyone here?

californiastarscaliforniastars member
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I need someone to tell me I am being stupid and pessimistic for no reason.
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Re: anyone here?

  • ezbakejessezbakejess

    I'm here. 

    What are you being pessimistic about? 

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    channeling positive thoughts your way.

    what's up?

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    Don't know what I am commenting on- but "being stupid and pessimistic for no reason."  Big Smile

    BTW - I am so in Sac... Where in Sac are you? We are in North Natomas.

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  • californiastarscaliforniastars member

    I have 2 little sisters. One got married a year before me (she was married at 20) and already has two gorgeous girls. I just keep telling myself that she was married first so it is not surprising that she had a child before me (I forget that she has two)

    Well, my second little sister (22 years old) just got engaged this week. For some reason I have this huge fear that she is going to end up having a kid before I do. They haven't even set a date yet, but I just can't get the thought out of my mind.

    I know I am being negative for no reason, but I can't help it. Please slap some sense into me. 

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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    Nah... it sort of sucks... I can remember when I was little- I thought I would have my first baby at 24 and my second at 26. I am now 31 and still haven't had one - let alone two. I think we put expectations on ourselves and it sucks when we don't hit the mark.

    (((hugs)))

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    I've had this same thought many a time. my sis is 2 years younger than me, but not married -- but what if? I'm older. I'm supposed to do all of this first. . . .

    it's difficult - but no matter what order we have families of our own, I'm excited by the prospect of nieces, nephews . . .

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • californiastarscaliforniastars member

    Thanks girls. I think I just needed someone to tell me that I am being normal (maybe a little dramatic, but normal)

     

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  • ezbakejessezbakejess

    Well... that does kinda blow.

    I have found that TTC has me living my life 2 weeks at a time. It has made me very short sighted. I think you may be getting caught up in that as well. Even IF your other sister get's pg first (which hasn't even happened yet!), who's to say that your baby won't be right behind. Even though a couple months seems like an eternity right now, in the long term it's nothing.

    So my point - think of how much fun your babies will have playing together and how close they will be for the rest of their lives. Focus on that, and try not to worry about whose kid is older. 

    ::hugshugshugs:: 

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