So I know this is not at all pregnancy related but I need advice and love you gals - so I am hoping you can help.
I started at a new agency the first of Sept (I work at a non profit). Everyone in my office is great but I have this weird feeling about one of the Senior Managers. At first he stopped in my office to ask a question about an upcoming event (totally fine as it is my job to put them on). But the past week and a half he is stopping in my office just to chat at least once sometimes twice a day. And he stays for like 20 min a time. I basically have to turn to my computer or answer a phone call to get him to leave. At first, I thought he was just being friendly trying to get to know me, welcome me, etc. Now it's kind of weird. He has nothing to do with my department in any way and he comes in and talks about personal stuff (we both used to live in Chicago, talks about his kid, sports, sometimes about being single at his age, etc). Of course, I have always been friendly and ask questions - what else I am supposed to do? He obviously knows I am married and that's why we moved to NC. Well today, he stopped by twice for almost 30 min each time and then sent me an email that said "BTW You look nice today. You should wear heels more often."
Am I the only one that thinks this is weird? What do I say or do? He is senior management but I don't report to him in any way?? I have no idea if I am overreacting or what. But I don't want other people to wonder what is going on - my boss sits across the hall from me and sees him in my office constantly.
Re: NBR: Weird Work Issue
It's a little odd. Is he like that with anyone else? Until the heels comment, I'd say maybe he's just friendly and feels connected to you since you have some common background: chicago etc.
If you don't want to let your boss get the wrong idea, you could just casually say something to your boss like "does he stop and talk to everyone this much?" in a slightly annoyed voice. I'd save the e-mails and write down any other 'over the line' comments he makes with dates. It's not a big deal now, but if it were to get ugly later on, you'll want proof that you're not encouraging it.