- Pregnancy
- Baby & Toddler
- Parents
- Getting Pregnant
- Baby Names
- Product Reviews
-
Registry
- Community
-
More
Want a personalized experience?
Download the free app
TTC After a Loss
heathergirl67
member
I stole this from Snarky TTTC (Warning: Sensitive Material)
heathergirl67
member
I love it
This discussion has been closed.
Re: I stole this from Snarky TTTC (Warning: Sensitive Material)
Labor Buddy to Blowfish11
This is awful! Great? Now, I can?t stop crying?. I guess I am just not there yet.
Sorry! That's why I didn't post it on MC/PL. I just figured others who are fed up with TTC could relate. Maybe I should put a warning in the title or something.
I can see how this will upset some people. I think I am just at the bitter level that this is what it feels like.
I would put a warning on it.
a warning is probably good...
fwiw, I am in the same sarcastic/bitter/snarky place you are - so I understand why you posted it.
I hope I look that hot when I'm KU... good grief.
BFP #2 - 6/24/09-mc 7/25/09 @8wks
6/09 Dx w/PCOS--Metformin & Progesterone
8/09 Dx w/Compound Hetero MTHFR--Neevo, Metanx & BA
BFP #3 - 1/11/10 - DD1 born 9/16/10 @39w4d, 8lbs 14oz & 20in.
Heparin from BFP to 34wks.
BFP #4 - 10/4/11 - DD2 born 6/2/12 @38w1d, 8lbs 11oz & 21in.
Same med protocol as last time, but heparin continued until delivery.
BFP #5 - 3/30/14, EDC 12/10/14!!
Beta #1-76 (12dpo), Beta #2-238 (14dpo)
geez Heather, how dare you stir up sh?t around here you heartless winch.
ETA: i appreciated it.
Perhaps if my situation were different- I could laugh at it with time... The fact of the matter is, I do feel my baby failed Haleigh. My body attacked her's and cut off her limbs! God! I keep waiting for time to make it better... but, it doesn't. Such a heavy weight to carry...
I know it wasn't intentional... i am just not there yet. I wish i were- but, I am not.
Well I figured that some people here would appreciate it (and some do). I thought the fact that I disclosed where I got it would be warning enough. It wasn't. Duly noted. I added another warning to the title.
It has been 2 weeks and I am still numb over having a "late loss" and can't believe that it happened for the 3rd time in EXACTLY 1 year. It hurts still and I do feel that my body is failing me too!
I think that we all feel like our bodies failed our babies. But your situation is unique and recent. Again, I'm really sorry that what I posted hurt you. That is the last thing that I wanted.
That pic is the story of my life. I do appreciate it!
me too!
i'm there... ready to slap my ute in the... well... in the ute!
i purposefully stayed on mc/pl until i felt emotionally ready to talk about ttc and not cry when i saw a pg belly... don't get me wrong, i still have my days.. but overall i wanted to heal emotionally enough to start thinking about ttc again... i know my loss was early, which is why i think it took a pretty short time for me to feel ready...
i do appreciate the photo... pretty much how i feel these days...
I agree with Rhody. It also depends on what kind of day someone is having.
I personally thought it was hilarious!
This. I'm only on cycle #2 after my m/c, but it is still frustrating! Even our damm horses are all pregnant after their first cycle...
Yep...this.
Tying to be positive, but its easier to be all of the above sometimes.
oh good grief
::chuckles as I drink my corona::
BFP #2 10/29/08 ...stillborn via c/s @41w 7/20/09
missing my baby everyday
BFP #3 1/20/10 My angel's little sister Grace Madison was born September 8th 2010 @37w. We're so blessed! Thank you angel for getting her here safely.
BFP #4 12/30/11. Jackson Christopher 8/22/2012 via repeat c/s @ 37w 3d
Me too!!
Summer 2011
Just to give a little context...the couple who write this blog (www.lifeandloveinthepetridish.blogspot.com) and came up with this snark have gone through five IVF cycles and five consecutive losses. So please know that the humor certainly comes from hard-wrought experience. This post was not meant to take loss lightly, just to also laugh at the absurdity/sadnes of many people's reality, including our own. If you read the blog, you'll see lots of tears along with the laughter. We didn't expect this to get picked up by The Bump. Hope it didn't send anyone reeling too badly. Hang in there.
Mo