no. first time parents really are wackadoos. i can see i was one in hindsight. now im so "eh, sometimes sawyer is annoying and doesn't look cute". as opposed to when aidan was this age and i thought "aidan always looks cute and her yelling is adorable!!"
see - delusional. i know now that sometimes kids are a pain, sometimes other people are annoyed with them, sometimes my kid is not the cutest in the room. some first time parents do NOT understand that.
My theory is that for how much daycare can be villified in some circles, if more than 60% of us think that our child is the care provider's most favorite in the whole class, they are obviously doing a great job.
DS1 born June 2008 | m/c at 9w March 2011 | DS2 born April 2012
no. first time parents really are wackadoos. i can see i was one in hindsight. now im so "eh, sometimes sawyer is annoying and doesn't look cute". as opposed to when aidan was this age and i thought "aidan always looks cute and her yelling is adorable!!"
see - delusional. i know now that sometimes kids are a pain, sometimes other people are annoyed with them, sometimes my kid is not the cutest in the room. some first time parents do NOT understand that.
I think Rach knows, she is just being facetious.
Rach--nestie babies are only the awesomest because they have Sophies and the baby crack machine. Duh.
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My theory is that for how much daycare can be villified in some circles, if more than 60% of us think that our child is the care provider's most favorite in the whole class, they are obviously doing a great job.
well after working in a daycare/schools for a while - its easy to make parents feel that way.
Rach--nestie babies are only the awesomest because they have Sophies and the baby crack machine. Duh.
Exactly! These things are scientifically proven to increase awesomeness, and I know this because DS only has one of them and he is the awesomest baby I know. And if he was in daycare, I know he'd be the favorite. And his yelling is cute!
My theory is that for how much daycare can be villified in some circles, if more than 60% of us think that our child is the care provider's most favorite in the whole class, they are obviously doing a great job.
well after working in a daycare/schools for a while - its easy to make parents feel that way.
Seriously, WTF is your point with all of this? First time moms are delusional, daycare providers are deceptive, blah blah. Good for you for being a SAH 2nd time mom, now stop being so obnoxious.
DS1 born June 2008 | m/c at 9w March 2011 | DS2 born April 2012
wtf are you talking about? its delusional to think that bc your DCP makes you feel as if your child is the best that it reflects their childcare abilities at all. look at the opposite of that - for the 40% who don't feel that their child is the "class pet". its a whacked theory. thats my point.
Seriously, WTF is your point with all of this? First time moms are delusional, daycare providers are deceptive, blah blah. Good for you for being a SAH 2nd time mom, now stop being so obnoxious.
oh vanilla I love you so.
I thought your point was just that every parent thinks their child is the favorite by default. No?
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so did i. thats why i was joking around at the beginning of this thread.
but i do think its really weird to say that a DCP is "doing a great job" bc they make you feel as if your child is the best. i think thats a very odd theory. its their job to make you feel as if your child is the best. its not deceit (as vanilla liked to twist) - its just part of the job on making a parent feel comfortable.
That is where DD's illness came from. One of the moms in my playgroup went there and her kid got sick from that daycare and gave it to DD.
Do you have to go talk about God with other moms and they teach your child about Christianity too?
that is different. that's "moms of preschoolers" and i think thats a playgroup - like the parents have to go too. MDO is like school where i drop her off, they have lesson plans, they learn things and sings songs and then i pick her up at 2.
and eh, the one we go to - yes. i mean, she colors pics of noah's ark and stuff. but i am not certain that they are all like that. but i certainly do not talk about God with other moms haha i go home or to the gym or to do something with sawyer.
Re: okay vanilla spill your theory...
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whats this in reference to?
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FT, PT, center, in-home, Mothers Day Out, etc. I have a theory.
Here's the post.
No no, let me guess! Is it that:
Nestie babies are more awesome and loveable than the general population of babies, and therefore ALWAYS the favorite of everyone anywhere they go?
I'm right aren't I? Do I get a prize!?
thats close to my theory. mine is more so "first time parents are delusional" (hey, i was too - so im not saying i didnt do the same things)
This was more what I was thinking too...but rachel you get the silver. ;P
No waaaaaaaaaay, you guys are both sooooo off! Vanilla, come back me up! Nestie babies are awesome!
no. first time parents really are wackadoos. i can see i was one in hindsight. now im so "eh, sometimes sawyer is annoying and doesn't look cute". as opposed to when aidan was this age and i thought "aidan always looks cute and her yelling is adorable!!"
see - delusional. i know now that sometimes kids are a pain, sometimes other people are annoyed with them, sometimes my kid is not the cutest in the room. some first time parents do NOT understand that.
My theory is that for how much daycare can be villified in some circles, if more than 60% of us think that our child is the care provider's most favorite in the whole class, they are obviously doing a great job.
DS1 born June 2008 | m/c at 9w March 2011 | DS2 born April 2012
I think Rach knows, she is just being facetious.
Rach--nestie babies are only the awesomest because they have Sophies and the baby crack machine. Duh.
well after working in a daycare/schools for a while - its easy to make parents feel that way.
Exactly! These things are scientifically proven to increase awesomeness, and I know this because DS only has one of them and he is the awesomest baby I know. And if he was in daycare, I know he'd be the favorite. And his yelling is cute!
Seriously, WTF is your point with all of this? First time moms are delusional, daycare providers are deceptive, blah blah. Good for you for being a SAH 2nd time mom, now stop being so obnoxious.
DS1 born June 2008 | m/c at 9w March 2011 | DS2 born April 2012
oh vanilla I love you so.
I thought your point was just that every parent thinks their child is the favorite by default. No?
Did I miss you got a job? Or are you talking about the gym daycare while you work out? I am not being facetious I am actually confused.
one kid in daycare and one kid at home still equals SAHM?
she said MDO on her thread. aidan is in MDO mon/wed.
duh. but her use of snark is if "zomg you have no idea about kids being in childcare" was a fail. bc she is wrong.
wow - I took that thread totally tongue in cheek
this is getting a little silly
so did i. thats why i was joking around at the beginning of this thread.
but i do think its really weird to say that a DCP is "doing a great job" bc they make you feel as if your child is the best. i think thats a very odd theory. its their job to make you feel as if your child is the best. its not deceit (as vanilla liked to twist) - its just part of the job on making a parent feel comfortable.
yes but her comment that you are obnoxious was spot on.
I know--I totally thought it was just about thinking your kid is the best...because you know, my kid is the best.
no way! my kid is the best, too!
Mother's Day Out - I *think*
mother's day out. its like pre-pre-school. she plays, learns colors, numbers, letters, and shapes, and goes home.
its mostly through churches around here. it starts pretty young - maybe like 12 or 18 months?
Ohhhh I think that is MOPS here.
That is where DD's illness came from. One of the moms in my playgroup went there and her kid got sick from that daycare and gave it to DD.
Do you have to go talk about God with other moms and they teach your child about Christianity too?
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that is different. that's "moms of preschoolers" and i think thats a playgroup - like the parents have to go too. MDO is like school where i drop her off, they have lesson plans, they learn things and sings songs and then i pick her up at 2.
and eh, the one we go to - yes. i mean, she colors pics of noah's ark and stuff. but i am not certain that they are all like that. but i certainly do not talk about God with other moms haha i go home or to the gym or to do something with sawyer.