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I'm going to be an emotional mess

disbride061103disbride061103 member
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I'm pretty sure I'm going to be an emotional mess the next few days.  Tomorrow it will be one year since ds turned breech (5 days before my edd) and my c/s was scheduled.  Thursday is quarter-end at work, which is one of the four most stressful days of the year.  DS will be a year old on Friday (Happy Birthday to my baby!!)  On top of that I had bloodwork done today to confirm that I am miscarrying (like the intolerable cramps and heavy bleeding weren't an indication).  I will likely get the results Thursday or Friday.  

DS's birthday party is on Sunday.  My toxic mother will be there.  I haven't spoken to her in over two months.  I stopped talking to her when she yet again brought up the fact that I had a c/s and in her opinion, I did not give birth to DS.  My brother, who has never made an honest attempt at meeting DS, is saying he might come to DS's party and now I'm mad at myself for inviting him. 

I've been randomly bursting into tears since I started bleeding on Thursday, and I know I'm just going to get worse as the week goes on.  Thank God DH is being extra helpful and supportive this week.  That man must love me if he puts up with me when I'm crazy like this.

 

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  • Temp174496125006552Temp174496125006552 member

    I'm so sorry about the miscarriage.  And just remember that the party is a celebration for your son.  Try and ignore your mom and brother (if he shows) and enjoy yourself.

    And have one of these Drinks.  It might make you feel better.

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  • MegGaryMegGary member

    Hugs to you hon. So sorry for your loss.

     

    Happy birthday to your little guy.  

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  • mrsmattomrsmatto
    I'm so sorry for your troubles. Hang in there as best you can and cry whenever and wherever you feel like it! Screw what other people think. Take care of yourself.
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  • little_mrslittle_mrs member
    I am soooo sorry you are dealing with all of that on top of a m/c.  Hopefully you can ignore the negative people & focus on your DS.
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  • Mrs.McLovinMrs.McLovin member

    I'm sorry to hear about the m/c.

    Try to enjoy the party this weekend!! This is a time to celebrate!

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  • Mrs.McLovinMrs.McLovin member
    BTW, your mom is a loon. You gave birth to your son! So what if he had to use the fire exit instead of the birth canal. Mine did too!
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  • newportbride715newportbride715 member
    Oh my, I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this at once! Not that a MC is easy anytime, but still. Try to enjoy the party and concentrate on the people who you like to be around. Your DS will enjoy himself if you let yourself have fun. You deserve it.
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  • rynhalesrynhales
    Oh I am so sorry you are having so much stress. I am soo soo sorry about the m/c.  I hope the party goes really well! Concentrate on your baby and not the other crap. =)
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  • disbride061103disbride061103 member

    You ladies are making me cry!  Thanks for the support.  I really just want this weekend to be about DS, so I'm trying to not worry about the other crap, especially my mom.  She knows how to push my buttons.  The only reason she is invited to the party is because if I didn't invite her, then she wouldn't let my dad come to the party. 

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  • jamie5315jamie5315
    I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I hope it all gets better for you soon. 
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