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TTC After a Loss
I already feel like this cycle is a bust...
im only on 3dpo and I really dont have any reason to think that except I dont have much of a temp spike...
am I just having a slow rise or what? Come on temps keep going up please!!
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Re: I already feel like this cycle is a bust...
Not to start myself off on the wrong foot, but I have a question.
Why are you getting down on yourself. You are only 3dpo. Your chart is supposed to tell you that you O'd, right? Isn't that what it did? Are you looking for someone to say, "Ohhh, it's early.." Like girls normally do? I'm just a little confused...
maybe I am misreading your reply (and if I am, then I apologize), but IMO there is no reason to reply to someone's post with a snarky comment. TTC is hard and TTCAL is especially hard. Women can go from being hopeful to distraught to frustrated to angry very easily and the only reason anyone comes to a message board is for support and encouragement. If someone's post annoys you or whatever, you should just move on to something else.
I have to agree with this... I mean, its not like she asked a stupid question... and it was very clear that she was venting.
I didn't mean to sound snarky. I was just wondering why she is giving up so early. I know TTC at any stage is hard. Giving up at 3dpo? I just don't understand.
and you may never understand... some of the girls here have been around for a long time. MAYBE you will get lucky and get KU right away and never experience this... its easy to be quick to judge... but around here you should be VERY careful about what you say and to whom you say it. You are new on this board and you dont want to out yourself before people get a chance to know you....
After I posted earlier I read your other post and saw that you were new here. I just wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss and I hope that your stay will be short. Just be careful what you say and remember that behind the message board are real people with real feelings.
Hi pot, my name is kettle. Are you serious right now? A little quick to judge you are.
What the fvck is your problem???
That's why we're ALL here is for words of encouragement and support. If you can't give that than get the fvck out.......no need to be such a biatch.
This is what I should have said the first time
I guess I'm wasting my breath telling you to think about people's feelings. moving on to less hopeless causes now.
Daaannnnggg. I was just told!
No not wasting your breath, I didn't meant to hurt anyone's feelings.
I JUST DON'T GET WHY SHE IS GIVING UP SO EARLY.
yep! me too.
What I don't understand, you obviously knew you were starting off on the wrong foot or you wouldn't have stated the fact.
Wait till you're at your lowest TTCAL point, Karma is going to come back at you full force and kick you in the a*s.
Yeah sorry I didnt mean it to come across like I was fishing for something...from all my other charts my temps are higher and keep getting higher..just a little disappointed this morning thats all...just a vent post sorry.
You have NOTHING to be sorry about. You have as much right as everyone and anyone on this board to vent and get some encouragement than anyone else. I know nothing about charting so all I can do is keeping sending some PT's. Hang in there, and don't be sorry. You provide encouragment to everyone else, so why shouldn't you get the same.
Wow. This thread turned horribly wrong. Go back to all of your corners ladies.
Don't be sorry. I understand being disappointed. I hope your chart does what you want it to. Try not to get too down over a couple temps. It's all about the "big picture".
Hmmmm this maybe would have been a smarter choice of words the first time.
a newb with balls...
that?s a new one.
Yeah I know dang! I took a shower drove to work logged and boom! haha really didnt meant to cause any drama girls...but thank you for understanding what I was doing (venting)