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this sucks...

Kaly16Kaly16 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

So I posted below about spotting etc. last night I spent 4 hours in the evaluation unit getting poked and prodded only to have them tell me that the amount of bleeding I was having was not necesarily a concern and the US looked GREAt...for 6.5 weeks.....Um, i am supposed to be 8.5.

sooo..later that night I soaked though a pad, my pj pants and the comforter...awesome. And then came the clots (WAY TMI, sorry)

So, I had an US today and everything they saw in yesterday's us was gone...

I was expecting it, but it still sucked to have it confirmed. 

 

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Re: this sucks...

  • nadine21404nadine21404

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

    Big HUGS to you!

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  • emmaagnesemmaagnes member

    I'm so sorry for your loss--especially since you had been given some hope that things may work out.

     I think your term that "it sucked" is completely accurate--even eloquent.

     When I had my miscarriage confirmed by US this morning, it was devastating. Worse though was the thoughtlessness of the barely 20-year-old nurse when she bee-bopped into the secondary waiting room, called my name, and asked, "So what are we seeing you for today?" I was so rude to her. I feel terrible. But I could only respond,"Can't you read a chart?" Idiot!!!!

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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member

    I am so sorry, I HATE it when someone tell you something is going to be fine when you know in your heart that something is wrong...

    ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 4/2/09 EDD 12/6/09 -MC 4/12/09 BFP #2 6/2/09 EDD 2/14/10 -Ectopic in Tube, Surgery 6/23/09 BFP #3 10/15/09 EDD 6/27/10 -Daniel John 6/21/10 BFP #4 Oct 2010 Chemical Pregnancy BFP #5 8/19/11 Beta #1 82.8 Prog 17.25
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  • MSC03MSC03 member

    It does suck... I'm sorry. ((HUGS))

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  • ping1080ping1080 member
    I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. It sounds like a roller coaster of a week. You're in my thoughts & I hope you are physically feeling better.
    BFP#1 1/27/09 :: Natural m/c 2/6/09 @ 6w
    BFP#2 5/11/09 :: Natural m/c 5/27/09 @ 5w5d
    BFP#3 7/24/09 :: Missed m/c, baby stopped growing at 6w4d :: natural m/c 8/28/09 @ 8w6d
    BFP #4 11/27/09 :: DD born 7/27/10
    BFP #5 2/29/12 :: DD born 11/6/12

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  • picaronapicarona

    ((hugs)) I'm so sorry.  And don't worry, there's never TMI on a board like this.  If you can't ask/tell here, where can you?

    The second your-uterus-is-empty-now ultrasound was so incredibly hard for me, like you said, the confirmation of it is brutal.  I hope you're feeling physically ok today and that emotional healing will follow.

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