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Tinybride08Tinybride08
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I'm feeling a little awkward here. I'm still in a little disbelief that I'm posting here. I just never imagined this would happen to me. I'm sure all of you thought the same thing.

I wonder if gradually the dissapointment will subside or it won't really until I get pregnant again.

 

 

 

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  • someflower6someflower6 member
    i'm so sorry for your loss and that you have to be posting on this board. i truly hope you can find some peace and comfort here.
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  • kammlmkammlm

    I know how you feel.  I think I'm still in a state of disbelief.  I haven't actually miscarried yet (An extremely low heartrate was detected on ultrasound last week.  I go back to the dr on Thurs for a followup if no bleeding or cramping before then.) but I can't believe it actually happened to me and that I am posting on this board instead of the first trimester board.

    So sorry for your loss.  ((hugs))

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  • elysaann17elysaann17

    I was certainly not expecting to be posting on this board either. Since my d&c last week and finding out there was no heartbeat the week before, I have had good days and sad days. I am sure you will feel better with time.

    I find comfort knowing that m/c is very common. It seems like everyone I talk to lately has had one and then gone on to have several children. We lost ours very early on (measured 6 weeks at 9 week ultrasound) and I am grateful for that at least. I couldn't imagine going 20 weeks or full term and having something happen, ugh!

    m/c #1 - 09/09 - EDD 4/24/10 m/c #2 - 04/10 - EDD 11/30/10 m/c #3 - 08/10 - EDD 04/01/11 Praying for a sticky baby!
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  • *Merry**Merry* member
    I am so sorry for your lost.  I had a m/c on 9/7/09, I have good days... and I have bad days... Everyone on this board is extremly supportive and can all relate in some way to what you are going through. We're here for you
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  • gen259gen259
    I'm so sorry that yorue here.  I know exactly what you mean.  Although we know that these things happen to people most of us just never expected that we would be one of them.  Hang in there, not sure if your feelings of disappointment will ever 100% go away but at some point I think you will begin to view the situation an different light.
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  • KAG30KAG30
    I am so sorry for your loss.  How long you are disappoint / grieve really depends on the person.  I lost my girls 3 months ago and still have bad days, but the good days defintely outweigh the bad days now. 
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  • carynmpcarynmp member

    I am really sorry for your loss.  I turned to this board often (mostly as a lurker) and I found comfort in everyone's words.  I felt like everyone here really knew what I was going through when friends/family did not.  My D&C was August 15th.  I cried alot the first few weeks.  Once I started teaching again I was pretty busy.  I stil think about it all the time - but am trying to stay optomistic because I want to get pg again.

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