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I have 2 WTF's for Thursday....(vent and 1/2)
I guess the universe forgot it was Wednesday for me yesterday...
WTF co-irker? I go to my usual stall in our office bathroom after lunch, and what do I find? A bunch of shiit schmeared all over the seat. Seriously? There are only six women in my office. Now I am plagued with wondering who it was and how they possibly could not have seen that and then made the decision to not clean it up. Oy.
WTF Dad?? I told you about my BFP, m/c, and TTTC because you're my dad, and I told you and you promised to please keep it to yourself and not tell anyone. So pray tell, why did I just go to your mother's house at lunch, only to have her barrage me with questions about it, and then go on to tell me that I am "playing God" if I go see an RE and that maybe I'm not meant to be a mother if I am having trouble??? Really, Dad, really? Ok, so I guess I could let it slide that you told her about the BFP, but you seriously had to tell her every little detail I told you. Good God. Mom didn't tell her parents anything about it, so why did you feel the need to? Don't worry, I'll be sure to tell you about the next pregnancy, but not until I'm fvcking crowning.
Ok, I feel a lot better. Thanks for reading or skimming, carry on.
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Re: I have 2 WTF's for Thursday....(vent and 1/2)
I read it - I read the poo thing just as I started to eat something and almost gagged. That's nasty. Gotta wonder about grown-up women who can't flush.
That sucks about your dad though. Maybe he was just upset and needed to talk to his mom, but he should have respected the fact that he made a promise to you AND that it is your business.
Ugh some people are so gross! I work in a middle school and have heard about the poo smearing in the boys room. I could never imagine seeing that from grown women.
Sorry to hear that your TTC story was leaked to family. THis is the reason I'm not telling my family. They can't keep their mouths shut!
Hope your day gets better
Boo on your dad. I would be pissed off if she was saying that maybe I wasn't meant to be a mother if I am having trouble.
So you are saying that molesters, killers and rapist who easly get pregnant were meant to be parents?!?! Well hot damn, I feel soooo much better knowing God did not choose me.
Ugh... makes me want to smack a biitch....
My Chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/28017b
TTC #1- 3 failed rounds of Clomid/ Surprise Natural BFP w/weight loss- 9/22/11 DD 5/12
DX. Dec '09 w/ Inappropriate LH Secretion Syndrom/PCOS/ Anov 28 months
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For this child I prayed, and the LORD has given me my petition which I asked of him.
1 Samuel 1:27
DX PCOS
Success with #1 after Femara + Trigger + IUI
I had not told anyone except my mom about TTC until the BFP. DH and I told parents only about it, and then the m/c happened.
I specifically told him not to tell her b/c I thought it would upset her. Turns out it ended up upsetting me.
oh goodness *hugs and hands you...
I was speechless as she said it.
Then I told her God and me are on a break, and then she was speechless.
1. Gross about the poo. I would totally be wondering who did it- yuck.
2. Sorry about your dad. This is a fear I have with my parents as well. I'm sorry that your dad blabbed. As pp said, maybe he is upset about it and needed to talk to his mom. It really sucks to have opinions on it though, it's your business and your dad should have respected your privacy.
I think you should leave this in the stall for your co workers...
and I'm sorry about your dad telling your grandma. that really does suck. *hugs*
That's nasty about the poo. Someone did that at my first job out of college and I always wondered who it was and what they were thinking.
Sorry about your dad spilling the entire can of beans. He should have respected your privacy.
That would be awesome....message sent, no?
This is totally ignorant. Sorry, I know it's your g-ma but that's just plain mean. I would have cried.
My grandmother = backwards ass bayou bible thumping dumb fvck
Sorry, it is what it is. And yes, I did cry on the way back to work.
YGPM
I agree with the eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew! Your dad is inconsiderate. I'm sorry he is being a jack a$$. Hope your day gets better. ::hugs::
My BFP Chart
I deal with people like that all the time. Just replace "bayou" with "ignorant redneck". Input from people like that should go in one ear and out the other. Hope you feel better soon!
Wanna borrow my cow bell and bang some heads?
I get ticked even when women pee all over the seat. I think I'm the only woman in the world that leaves the seat dry for the next chick. I can't imagine poo. You need to hang a sign. Not sure yet what the sign should say...... hmmmm... I feel a new post coming on....
Anyway, sorry about your dad. That just reaffirms my decision to say nothing to anyone. This is all just so very personal to me. And playing God? WTF is right.
YGPM too!
Yeah, I need your cowbell for sure. You know who I feel bad for though? the ladies who clean up our bathrooms every night. They don't deserve that. I feel like I should warn them, but then I am afraid they would think it was me.
Totally gross about the poo - sometimes there are pee drops on the toliet seat in our office bathroom, today there was even a hair from "down there" - yuck!! I always check the seat before I leave.
About your grandma, that must have been awful. It sounds like you get who she is, so I really hope you aren't taking it personally. I am pretty sure that God created us with brains for a reason and creating medical advances to help people have children is one of them!!
The smeared shiit is seriously gross!
Sorry that your dad felt to need to spread your business around. Are you going to ask him about it?