Did I have a M/C

SammyJoe0313 · September 2009

I had a IUD and I got it out in the end of June. My DR told me that my cycles should be normal. Had a period on the 2nd of July and it was normal. Then I thought I was due on the 2nd of Aug. but it never came untill the 12th and was VERY heavy and long. Could that have been a M/C?

Kinda Dump question but I never called my DR. and I just don't know?? And now I am pregnant and kind of scared?

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

You have a ticker that says you are pregnant....

Your cycles could be off because of the IUD. If you are curious, take a pregnancy test, and keep testing weekly until you get a positive or AF. No AF in 60 days...call your doc.

SammyJoe0313 · September 2009

I am pregnant now. But I am not sure if I had a M/C last month and If so should I call my Doctor?

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

There isn't any way to tell if you had a miscarriage in the past. You could have just been late.

What kind of IUD did you have?

SammyJoe0313 · September 2009

Minera

Ok thanks.

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

That is progesterone based...which can all but make your periods dissapear (I don't know if this was the case with you). That being said, when you come off of it, your periods are bound to be heavier.

To ease your mind, you can call your doc and tell her, and maybe she will give you an early u/s to confirm viability if you did in fact m/c.

H&H 9 months to you Smile

SammyJoe0313 · September 2009

Thank you SOOOOOO MUCH. You made me feel much better!

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

I try

Mrs0815 · September 2009

Get the fvck off this board you stupid cow! It's a loss board, do you not have your doctor's phone number?? How fvcking insensitive can you be?? People here are in pain and hurt they don't want to answer stupid questions like this-get a fvcking clue dumb asss!

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Mrs0815 · September 2009

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

Scout05 · September 2009

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

You weren't the one being flamed. This was a dumB question, and really wrong to post here on this board. It doesn't even make sense - if she had an mc in the middle of August, how could she be 6 weeks KU now?

Feel free to answer however you want - you were very nice to respond to her - but others might not take it as well. They are also free to respond as they wish. I'm with Mrs. on this one.

Tapsalteerie · September 2009

There are women who are grieving on this board. Women who 100% know they are experiencing a loss or have experienced a loss. The anger stems from the fact that during this difficult time for them, they don't want their losses to be exploited as a reason to provide medical advice to others who have not yet talked to their medical provider. The added pregnancy ticker also does not help the situation.

johannaknip · September 2009

Tapsalteerie:
There are women who are grieving on this board. Women who 100% know they are experiencing a loss or have experienced a loss. The anger stems from the fact that during this difficult time for them, they don't want their losses to be exploited as a reason to provide medical advice to others who have not yet talked to their medical provider. The added pregnancy ticker also does not help the situation.

this X1000

ToshaGirl · September 2009

Mrs0815:

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

I get why you are pissed at the OP...she's an idiot to post what she did, no doubt.

But really...speak when you are spoken to? What is this the classroom on Little House on the Praire? A bit uncalled for IMO.

texas77 · September 2009

she is 6 weeks pg by her lmp of 8/12, but still this is an unneccesary question.

who knows if you m/c'd last month. are you sure you are pg now? maybe just getting + HPT from residual hormones from your poss m/c?

i think it's insensitive to post here with your ticker. how is anyone here supposed to know what occured in your ute last month??

grr_aargh · September 2009

texas77:

she is 6 weeks pg by her lmp of 8/12, but still this is an unneccesary question.

who knows if you m/c'd last month. are you sure you are pg now? maybe just getting + HPT from residual hormones from your poss m/c?

i think it's insensitive to post here with your ticker. how is anyone here supposed to know what occured in your ute last month??

I have special goggles. If she gets close enough to the screen, I'll be able to tell her.

I'll wait.

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

Mrs0815:

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

You know what, I tend to not get involved in drama like this...but you are a huge b*tch. Ever heard of the saying treat others as you would like to be treated?

It was nice to be on a flame-free board for a while, guess not anymore.

Mizz&Shizz · September 2009

Mrs0815:

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

You know what, I tend to not get involved in drama like this...but you are a huge b*tch. Ever heard of the saying treat others as you would like to be treated?

It was nice to be on a flame-free board for a while, guess not anymore.

Scout05 · September 2009

Mizz&Shizz:
Mrs0815:

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

You know what, I tend to not get involved in drama like this...but you are a huge b*tch. Ever heard of the saying treat others as you would like to be treated?

It was nice to be on a flame-free board for a while, guess not anymore.

No, she is not a b*tch in anyway. She's awesome, and totally right on this subject. This is a great board, and very supportive, but that doesn't mean people can come over here and post AW questions and not get called out for it.

MrsDCruz · September 2009

texas77:

she is 6 weeks pg by her lmp of 8/12, but still this is an unneccesary question.

who knows if you m/c'd last month. are you sure you are pg now? maybe just getting + HPT from residual hormones from your poss m/c?

i think it's insensitive to post here with your ticker. how is anyone here supposed to know what occured in your ute last month??

Yes

MrsDCruz · September 2009

If you dont want to be flamed you probably shouldnt take a bath in gasoline... just sayin.

grr_aargh · September 2009

To the OP: Maybe. Does it matter?

My dad likes to say "Don't borrow pain." Don't make something from nothing, friend, you're KU now so count yourself among the blessed.

Jacquiemark · September 2009

Mizz&Shizz:
Mrs0815:

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

You know what, I tend to not get involved in drama like this...but you are a huge b*tch. Ever heard of the saying treat others as you would like to be treated?

It was nice to be on a flame-free board for a while, guess not anymore.

Well reposting this on GP to stir things up is definitely out of character for someone who doesn't get involved in drama. Huh? In addition, calling someone a huge b!tch who you don't even know is a little uncalled for as well. .

MrsDCruz · September 2009

Jacquiemark:
Mizz&Shizz:
Mrs0815:

Mizz&Shizz:
I am in pain, and I hurt everyday because of my m/c. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't answer her question. She came to this board because she thought she had a miscarriage, so what better board to ask it at? And so what if she is a complete dumb azz, thats not her fault. Simmer down.

Speak when you're spoken to. Nobody's talking to you.

PS-it's very much her fault if she's a dumb asss

You know what, I tend to not get involved in drama like this...but you are a huge b*tch. Ever heard of the saying treat others as you would like to be treated?

It was nice to be on a flame-free board for a while, guess not anymore.

Well reposting this on GP to stir things up is definitely out of character for someone who doesn't get involved in drama. In addition, calling someone a huge b!tch who you don't even know is a little uncalled for as well. .

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Letem know whats up girl Yes

summerbee1 · September 2009

CruzMommyG:
If you dont want to be flamed you probably shouldnt take a bath in gasoline... just sayin.

This. exactly. AND what Texas said.

And this is not always a flame-free board. As I recall, about a month ago, a girl came on this board to say how much she admired everyone who had been through a loss and didn't know how they had dealt with it. Her siggy included a pic of her LO and something to the effect of "my baby is the best baby in the whole entire world..." Several girls, myself included, let her have a piece of our minds.

This board is SACRED to me. I don't think I would have gotten through my m/c at 10 weeks without it and all of the wonderful ladies here and on TTCAL. I think people need to respect that and treat this as a mourning board, and stay the HELLLL out if they cannot refrain from being idiots. Or deal with the consequences.

Blasianlove · September 2009

I just want to know what is up with the humping dragons in the siggy. He is super cute.

Scout05 · September 2009

xxbblueangelxx:
I just want to know what is up with the humping dragons in the siggy. He is super cute.

Oh, him? That's Humphrey, the TTCAL mascot. He's covered in BFP dust and ready to spread the love

Blasianlove · September 2009

ambrandau2:

xxbblueangelxx:
I just want to know what is up with the humping dragons in the siggy. He is super cute.

Oh, him? That's Humphrey, the TTCAL mascot. He's covered in BFP dust and ready to spread the love

lol I love it.

MSC03 · September 2009

OP, the answer is "probably not" but you should mention it to your doctor anyway if you're concerned.

To everyone else wrapped up in this drama--You know, I think I had two chemical pregnancies a few years ago and would have loved to have a place to come where someone could answer my question like mizz did... especially if I was looking for some assistance and information about if it would affect my current pregnancy and admitted that I was indeed scared.

mchell9 · September 2009

It's really very simple in my mind- this is a LOSS board- not a place to come if you are wondering if you had a loss and are now preggies so it wouldn't even matter anyway.

People have to understand that the women here are very supportive and loyal to those who actually experienced a loss or are currently going through one. We get feisty when need be because we have all been through and some of us are still going through a lot so we are protective of this place. Just get over it already about who was being a b*tch and who is flaming who. You can't come here and just expect to be greeted with open arms with a post like that.

Krindor · September 2009

So I just want to say that reading about the humping dragon made my night. I laughed for about 5 minutes and I needed that.

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