2nd Trimester

Am I the only one

not spending $100 on a diaper bag or $500 on a stroller? I know we all come from different incomes, etc, but I'm starting to feel like a cheapskate....Not to say anything bad about you ladies who are spending the big bucks. Smile To each his own, but I'm already choking on spending $50 on my Eddie Bauer diaper bag from BRU....  Sad

Re: Am I the only one

  • Nope, I don't see the point. I'm registered for a $35 diaper bag and a $230 travel system.
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  • I have no clue what I'll spend, as I haven't even looked at that stuff yet!  Don't feel bad though, we're all different!
  • Nope we are budgeting everything we also refuse to buy anything til we see what people buy us. You never know?~?~?
  • You aren't the only one.  My diaper bag is $25, and my travel system was $160.  I just can't justify dropping a ton of cash on "stuff" because you never know what else we might need when baby arrives.
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  • I am getting an expensive diaper bag but only because my MIL is buying it for me.  I love Kate Spade and it is a Kate Spade diaper bag.  She really wants to treat me to it.

    Otherwise I would be looking for just a big roomy bad under 50 bucks!

  • If I suggested spending 500 on a stroller my husband would choke me. He's actively perusing CraigsList. 

    Although my little sister (bless her heart) bought me a GINORMOUS Coach purse she wants me to use as a diaper bag. While I LOVE it, there are no pockets, etc. So not practical. But I loved the thoughtfulness! Even if it DID have bottle pockets, etc... I would be so mad if I got baby poo on a coach purse lol... 

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  • No, you aren't alone. I plan on taking all the hand-me-downs I can get and then filling in with affordable items. I probably will splurge on a breast pump though.

  • I did buy an expensive diaper bag but we're just going with a chicco travel system. I say buy what you like and what's safe and don't worry about the costs.
  • I'm with you! $500 on a stroller??? No way, my stroller was $200 and it comes with the damn carseat!! LOL! I wish i had more disposable income, but i still probably wouldn't spend it on things like that. I was thinking one of the 6 backpacks we already have would make a decent diaper bag. That's just me, though and this is my second. First time around i was a single mom, so couldn't really afford all the 'good' stuff anyway.   
  • We are even though we have been saving up for a baby. We did splurge on the nursery set, in my mind, which cost us $1100.00. This included the crib, matress, changing table all in cherry wood. I started looking at diaper bags and stopped when I started to see them at $80.00.

    The play pen I want is $180, but a friend offered to buy this for me. I just don't want it to go all away.

  • nope definitely not spending that. I wouldn't be able to handle that blow .... but I'm cheap.
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  • I'm spending a little money on a diaper bag. I want one that's actually made to be a diaper bag (as opposed to just a large tote bag) and I want it to last.

    As far as a travel system goes, I think we're looking to spend around $200 - $300. I don't want to buy something cheap that doesn't work or isn't safe, but I'm not going to buy a designer stroller either.


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    I did buy an expensive diaper bag but we're just going with a chicco travel system. I say buy what you like and what's safe and don't worry about the costs.
    Unfortunately, not everyone has the luxury.
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  • I'm trying to find the cheapest diaper bag I can find! lol As for a stroller, I might spend a little more because my son will actually be inside of that... but other than that, I'm spending as little as possible on everything.
  • I'm totally with you on the diaper bag (and all the other stuff) but I just can't find a stroller with big wheels for under $600.  I want to be able to walk around our house with the stroller (and not just in the mall) but regular wheels won't be able to handle our terrain.  If anyone has suggestions for under $600, I'd love them.
  • We can't afford it. Now, if I did have the money, I would probably consider spending more, as long as I really was getting more for the money. Some times the cheaper items work just as well.
  • I did splurge on a Coach diaper bag but it was on sale for $175 (regularly 400) at the outlet and I loooooooove it.

    We registered for the snap n go stroller ($70) and the splurge is the Bob jogging stroller ($390).

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  • i plan on keeping my eyes peeled for bargains wherever i can find them. i don't necessarily believe the best products are always the most expensive, anyway.

     

    happy hunting!

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  • I'm a cheapo.  Not only will I be looking at all sales but we are going to take any hand me downs we can get.  Even if its for the opposite gender.  The baby won't care.
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  • I'm with you. I spent about $100 on a "diaper bag". Its a huge messanger bag with lots of pockets made by Keen. So once it's done at a diaper bag it's still useable as a bag.

    Other than that I'm very thankful for all hand me downs and gifts people have been gracious with. I cant justify spending a whole lot of money LO is going to spit up, pee or poop on.

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  • I decided that the only thing we are buying new is the Travel system, and even that we are being frugal. Everything else we will purchase on craigslist or second hand. I can not see spending so much money on something that will only be used for a few months.
  • $18 Jeep diaper bag from WalMart was more than worth it!  

    $450 on the travel system (but, we do get a $100 rebate).  We only splurged on this because the carseat was rated so highly in crash tests, and the matching stroller just had to be had.


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  • Not at all.  I am not registering or buying a diaper bag.  We're using a tripped out backpack we already own - thanks to beneficial experience with our young niece and nephew.  So an actual diaper bag seems like a waste of money to me - we just need a changing pad.

    So far regarding a stroller - I bought a barely used snap n go at a moms of multiples sale.  When baby grows out of infant seat, I have BFF's single stroller since she's using a double now.  Why spend the money when a perfectly good, barely used hand me down is right there?   And I don't feel bad about not spending the money on this for myself since I bought her both strollers as gifts anyway!

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  • You're definitely not the only one.  We're going with a basic travel system, which will be under $200, and we're definitely not spending more than $100 on a diaper bag--I'll either find one at my local maternity consignment store or buy one of the less swanky ones new.  Most of our nursery furniture purchases have been under-$100 Craigslist finds.  It's nice if you have a ton of disposable income (and can bear to part with it), but at the end of the day babies really don't need anything more than the safe basic option.  No one under four feet tall knows the difference between a Graco and an Orbit. 

    Plus I think I'd have a LOT of trouble explaining to my frugal husband (and my frugal self) why we "needed" a $900 stroller system. Wink

  • I did buy an expensive diaper bag, but I got a discount on it and I bought the Chicco Travel System, which in my opinion isn't too cheap, but it is a lot less expensive than some other strollers/carseats.  However, I used a coupon as well when I bought it and I liked that it had a very high rating in safety.  We don't have a nursery since my DH is deployed and I am living with my parents, so that has helped me save on a lot of costs as well.

  • I will be spending about $200 on a Coach diaper bag. My fiance and I definitely aren't rich, but we live comfortable and we budget our money well. I don't spend money on take out or other things on a daily basis - I specifically save up for items I want to splurge on (like a Coach diaper bag).

    If you spend $5 a day on lunch or dinner take out - that adds up to $25 a week - just on lunch. Parking costs $10 a day (at the cheapest lot) so I dont drive to work (saves on gas too) but public transportation still costs almost $100/month. So instead I've been waking up earlier and catching a ride with my fiance whenever he has day work. Just by packing my lunch, and car pooling to work when I can, I have saved enough money to buy my Coach diaper bag.

    I am very lucky b/c most of the big ticket items we need for the baby (furniture, car seat, stroller, etc) are being bought by my family. The only things we are buying ourselves are the crib and nursery bedding.

  • Same here. My stroller is a jogger and is $165.
  • we'll be using a backpack I already have and our stroller system was $200.,  I'm not spending a boat load of money for things to be pooped, peed and barfed on.
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  • You do not have to spend a lot of money! I spent 175 on our travel system (used a coupon) and my diaper bag is on my registry and it's about 30 bucks.  No need to be spending all the money, it's not necessary unless you have the money and really want it
  • I am using my old diaper bag, which is a PPB, but it sucks and I won't ever spend another penny on a diaper bag.  I did buy a new stroller, but that was like 6 months ago and I just need to by the attachment for #2.
  • Eh, everyone has different budgets and different priorities.  I just want a good, safe and durable product.  For some things that means a little more money, for others it doesn't.

    The diaper bag I'm ordering is just under $100.  It's good quality, I'll use it everyday and isn't stretching our budget so, why not?  I can't remember exactly how much our travel system is - maybe $230-250?  We just looked for safety, durability and good consumer reviews and the one we chose seemed to be about mid-range in cost.   

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  • I've been "blessed" enough to be able to spend whatever I want on a stroller and diaper bag. I'm getting the Orbit travel system ($900) and I'm going to get a Chanel tote or LV Neverfull tote to use as a diaper bag, that way it can be used as a purse after the baby doesn't need it anymore. If I didn't have the luxury of being able to get these things I'd go with the less expensive of course.
  • I think to each his own. What is expensive to one person is affordable to another. My mother balked at our $2000 furniture set, but my hubby and I think it is good for the price. Solid wood, convertible bed, and it will last. I personally am against huge diaper bags and will probably buy a coach tote from the outlet to use. I don't plan to get a $900 stroller b/c it isn't a need of ours. This is our only baby, we are in our 30's, and we have saved money to pay for these items. So I will get what I like that is within our budget. 
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    not spending $100 on a diaper bag or $500 on a stroller? I know we all come from different incomes, etc, but I'm starting to feel like a cheapskate....Not to say anything bad about you ladies who are spending the big bucks. Smile To each his own, but I'm already choking on spending $50 on my Eddie Bauer diaper bag from BRU....  Sad

    Not at all. I totally got my winnie the pooh diaper bag at Kmart for 12.99 on sale(norm 14.99) and my travel system from Craigslist for 65 bucks(It's practically brand new, she used it a couple of times, but her parents ended up getting her another travel system for her shower) when it was normally 155 in store. I think I bought my first brand-new item yesterday for Koen. It was a little jungle fisher price bouncer for 32.99 at BRU. My mom totally raised me to be a penny pincher, not a bad thing, I love it. :D

  • Definitely not the only one. The diaper bag I want is about $50, but I'm looking for deals/coupons on it. We already got our travel system because of an awesome online deal for $220 I think. I'm totally a bargain shopper and I figure saving money will allow us to get other stuff, as well as travel with LO.
  • uh nope, you aren't the only one! i got my carseat/stroller combo from a friend for free, and i will buy a "diaper bag" from TJMaxx or Marshalls.
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